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writes:Hey,My boyfriend recently got offered a job in another part of the country, I really want to go with him as he said that he can financially support me till I get a job, and we don't want to lose our relationship! Although we started off long distance, he moved in around 7 months ago and if he moves and i stay, we don't think long distance will work again...But then we have the problems of my parents trying o put me off going as they don't agree with it, me moving could possibly have the risk of me losing a relationship with my dadI've changed my mind 3 times and I'm still not sure, some advise would be great :)
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (6 July 2012):
 are you 18 or 19 or 20/21... big difference between 18 and 21 to be honest...
why are your folks against it???
learn early on that living your life to please your parents will never work.... they will be gone and you will be miserable if you denied yourself things to make your parents happy.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 July 2012):
Why do they not agree with it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2012): What reasons are they giving for trying to put you off this? I'm only hearing one side here OP, the side of what your boyfriend wants, we need more info to give an opinion.
What are the pros and cons of each situation? Other than your dad being pissed and your boyfriend thinking it can't work long distance again?
Do they want you to go to college? Are there better jobs where you are? Has your boyfriend ever hurt you or given your parents reason not to trust him?
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (6 July 2012):
 How long have you been with him? I think that if your boyfriend can propose to you it can make you feel secure by taking the risk. Any relationship whether long distance or not, can be a gamble. If you feel your boyfriend is the man you can spend the rest of your life with maybe you could even propose to him first. It also depends how easy it is for you to get a job there. I read again and I saw "another part of the country," not another country, so you would be able to visit your parents once a month. I would wonder why you would be losing your dad. Does he in any way dislike your boyfriend, or is it that you are still his little princess?
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