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writes:My girlfriend broke up with me 4 months ago. She was my first love and I've never gone through so much pain. She has already found another guy. She started hanging out with him only two weeks after we broke up and it hurts so much and makes me so mad. But she thinks I have no right to be mad. She said the breakup was entirely her fault but that just left me confused. Do I have a right to be mad at her for breaking my heart? And does it ever get better?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2009): of course you have a right to be mad, im in a similar situation my ex broke up with me four months ago thru a txt and then a few days ago he emails me saying ohhh im dating this other girl shes great, hope u find luck but u wont get anyone better than me. I think mostly you have a right to be deeply hurt but its been four months now at least she will leave u alone and u can get on with ur life. Hes gunna keep emailing me telling me bout this girl. I dont wanna be with him but obviously i do not wanna hear about him and a new girl after he broke my heart, i cried for 2days wen he ended it over nuthing.As time will go on ull start to feel better, i know its sooo painful im still feeling it but you only get one life and you dont want to spend your days being hurt and angry. I agree with the 1st comment, you shouldnt tell her how angry you are and it will hurt more seeing them together. You should have more pride, id never tell my ex how hurt i am when he emailed me bout this oter girl i just ignored him. You will not start to feel better if u keep contact with her, the only way ur going to be able to heal the pain is to not talk to her at all and do things that make you happy in urself.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (6 July 2009):
You have a right to feel how ever you want to.
However, you do not have the right to tell her about it.
If you are not dealing with the breakup then cut her out of your life. Don't see her and her new guy.
You can sit and be angry on your own with no one around. But you would be much better going and taking it out on a punch bag at the gym and then letting it go and trying to move on with your life.
Good Luck!! xx
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