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writes:Earlier this year i got in a relationship with this boy i really like, just like most relationships things went wrong which resulted in us going out separate ways. Left me devastated, i ending up making myself ill. Silly thing to do... But recently we have started talking again and he is saying he still has feelings for me and he wants to try again but he not sure if he is able to due to what happened last time. he has asked me to meet him next week so we can talk and he can figure out whether he has still got feelings for me. I am worried he is just using me. Do you think i should meet him and see what he has to say for himself???thankxx Reply to this Question
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reader, XOXOXchazXOXOX +, writes (12 July 2009):
XOXOXchazXOXOX is verified as being by the original poster of the question He has asked me to meet him Monday. but the problem is he has asked me to meet him late at night, which makes me think he only wants one thing... Do you still think i should go for it and meet him.?xx
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reader, XOXOXchazXOXOX +, writes (11 July 2009):
XOXOXchazXOXOX is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankx for your advise think i am just going to go for it and meet him.... i suppose if he is using me there is only one way to find out.... i going to respect myself this time and not jump in straigt away... thankx means alot.
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reader, Jes  +, writes (6 July 2009):
 Meeting up with him doesn't really mean that you are "together" again. Why not give it a shot and then you will know if what he is saying is true or not or if he is just using you or not. give it a shot and at least you will be relieved of the burdens of your past heartbreak with him. No matter, you should be smarter now than before, getting injured in a horse once can be an accident, but the second maybe not. Don't be blinded by your feelings about him. Be smarter this time and get by it girl. Hope this helps... ",)
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reader, sxcbabiegal +, writes (6 July 2009):
 It sounds to me like he does just honestly have feelings for you. As long as you just keep things casual when you meet up with him. then there is no reason for you to think that he may be using you in any way. I think you should meet up with him as a casual date, like at a cafe or going to the cinema. and see how that goes.
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