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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I posted before about a situation with a guy who was my professor. He initiated a flirtation with me and seemed interested but I think I accidentally insulted him and he thought I was blowing him off but I wasn't. When I was in his class again it sort of seemed like he was trying to see if I was interested but in the meantime he started flirting more aggressively with another student. I'm an older student who returned to school, he's in his 40s and she's 23. When I spoke to him at the end of the semester in December, I got the impression that he thought I was going to ask him out or something but I wasn't sure if he was with the other student so I didn't. I don't know what the status is with him and this other student but I'm still attracted to him and I wonder what would have happened if I hadn't accidentally blown him off before, I'm not in his class now and I'll be graduating. If I just ask him out and he is with her, I'll feel really rejected and embarrassed. On top of that, he is chasing after girls in his own class who are half his age. He doesn't know how old I am as I do look younger (no B.S.). Do I explain the past misunderstanding and see what he says or what can I do?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (25 April 2011):
 I'll bet there is, what state do you live in?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, he can't be fired because there is no policy against it at the school.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (21 April 2011):
Wait until you've graduated. He could be fired if you do before. Also if he does blow you off, at least you won't be seeing him all the time.
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