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writes:What Should i do?I've met a 16 year old girl i really like her. shes good looking. shes good 2 talk 2. i love her in less than a week. and we have so much in common.Sunday - 4th Feb - First Date And first time i met her she was so cute we went to watch a movie everything went smooth and good at the end of the date i kissed her. i asked her what the kiss meant she said what ever i wanted i wanna r-ship. she agreed so the start of our r-shipWednesday - 7th Feb - i took her to college and i got a kiss as i dropped her ofFriday (tonight) - 9th Feb - We Went To a park close to my house to get 2 know each over but it seemed like i was the only one talking.now i really do like this girl i do but i dunno what 2 do with her. she doesn't wanna come 2 my house 2 watch a DVD yet. i keep asking but i dont wanna rush her into anything and i think i know what shes thinking when i say " do u wanna come 2 my house 2 watch a DVD " i would think the same ... i'm only having getting her alone so i can make a sexual move.i would think the same. friday was the night she was gonna tell me she loves me and we said it at the same time. at the park tonight it seemed like she was just glad to spend time with me and i'm up for spending as much time with her but. i dont know where to take her at alldo any of u have any ideas where we could go and like get to know each other.i love bowling. she doesn't. i love football she doesn't. she loves 2 dance i dont unless i'm legless.so do any of u have any ideasany help would be greatand i know shes 16 and i know shes young but we have connected better than i did with my ex girlfriend.i'm totally happy. i love kissing its nice but we haven't tried holding hands or hugging. so i know these r still to come. we've been together less than a week we've seen each over 3 times. i made a joke when we talk on msn every night. " I'm going to bed alone maybe next time u will join me " i said it as a joke she said " yeah maybe next time " i told her i would like 4 her 2 met my mom because i think meeting my mom would be the hard part. and i think Sunday i will met her at night and take her 2 pub my mom gos and like let my mom met her. and have a drink and then go or something.she keeps asking what should she buy me for v-day i don't want anything to be honest. i just want her 2 see me that night and shes agreed to do that. but doing what is what shes thinking.i told her we can a) go to the cinema and watch music and lyricsb) go to my house and watch a DVDc) go for a drive and pull over and talkdo u have any ideas on what to do on v-day going to a place where they sell food is not a good idea because she cant keep it down and I'm very fussy person.i wanted to spend Saturday day with her (tomoz) but shes going to see a friend who bf died 3 weeks ago she told me she would speak 2 me on msn at night but cant see her throw the day.but shes up 4 meeting me on Sunday and v-day.where should i take her Sunday?if i had the cash i would take her 2 the cinema again but i just wanna spend time with her and chill if u get what i mean thats y watching a DVD at my house would be a good move. but she would have 2 met all of my family and there like really nosy and we will never be left alone.i dont even know where she lives because i think she doesn't wanna her family knowing anything about me which i couldn't care less about.she told me her full name and where her collage is apart from that its kind of ... thats all i know about her. and I'm hoping over time she will trust me enough to show me her house and her family. and more about about her.where should i take her is the problem. because I'm kind of stupid when it comes to stuff like this. i would find it alot easier if she came 2 my house.i want her to stay over v-day no sex or anything just like spend 1 night so we can get 2 see each over in the morning to see what its like but she was up 4 it when we first met now shes kind of backing of the idea. saying she will think about it.cash is a problem since i owe the bank money and i drive and have no job so money is a problem. so going to places where i have 2 pay is out of the window.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2007): sorry how old are you?
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reader, here_2_help +, writes (10 February 2007):
 this poor girl you are rushing into so much. meeting the mother big deal i mean it really scares you. then you have only been going out with her for a week and you want to sleep wiht her she is probaly still a virgin. the way i see itis you need to slow right down and fast before you lose this girl for good. now think about how she sees it she likes you and after 3 dates you are trying to get her into bed!!!!hope this helps xx
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reader, happytots +, writes (10 February 2007):
 well it sounds to me that u really love this girl and gud luck with everything, maybe a nice walk along the beach might be nice, just a chance to get to know one another. u mentioned about holding hands n cuddlng, maybe wen hving a walk, maybe ask her if she feels ok to hold ur hand.as for meeting the parents it is a good idea, but in this case i think u need to get to know her a bit more. did u want to meet her parents?coz u sed that she dusnt want u to meet them, did u ask why? maybe its just beacuse its something new and doesnt feel ready. just a little tip, my bf keeps asking my to go round nto his to watch a dvd and thats all i think, he after one thing, but its not a good thing to mention it to often, she will suggest it wen she feels ready.
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