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male
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30-35,
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writes:Hello, I wonder if anyone could be of assistance please, (for all who are unaware) I have previously posted two questions with regards to the situation that I’m in at the minute.Basically I have liked this girl for two years, we have been great friends and everyone told me that they thought she may be in love with me. I was very confused by her actions and after a couple of months of being unsure I requested advice from this excellent website! Everyone confirmed that she definitely liked me, so I felt that due to my age (15) I would continue to get to know her and then when I was nearly 16 it would be appropriate to possibly ask her out. A week after posting, things took a turn as she broke up with her boyfriend and I finally got 10 minuets with her alone. I missed a great opportunity to make a move as I just stood and smiled at her and because of that she ignored me for the rest of the week, as she expected me to make a move! Again I posted a post on this excellent website and I got great reply’s that advised me to take a move as soon as possible (otherwise I guess I would have lost her) and that brings me to today!Today I asked her for her number whilst she was with friends, initially she said she didn’t know her number so I gave her mine, then her friends whispered to her and then they giggled for a while and then she gave me it and said ‘oh but I haven’t got any credit’, after that she was quiet and well didn’t say much or even smile! Her friend said ‘are you going to get together’ but we both just froze and kind of ignored her and then walked off.I text her tonight and haven’t had a reply so I guess she wasn’t trying to avoid me she must be really out of credit, but what I’m trying to say is I don’t know if she was just trying to be polite and gave me the number when she didn’t want me to have it, I don’t get why they giggled?Things haven’t been the same since that day I didn’t make a move she still ignores me sometimes, I just still don’t get her actions! She’s not one of these flirty types who flirt with anyone so it’s not like I have exaggerated anything or have misunderstood her. I’m really confused, something is up? But what I don’t know. Any one who can understand what is going on please respond, I know I sound stupid but I don’t know anything about how girls act as I have ever had a relationship before.As always any help would be appreciated please, thanks for putting up with me again!Thank you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2007): Oh, you are so cute and don't worry too much about what is going on with this girl...she wanted you to have her number or she would not have given it to you, but she does not have any credit on her phone (minutes?) so she can't talk or respond to your texts just now.
Girl's her age giggle a lot, it is just something girls do....the friend embarassed her by drawing attention to the fact that you like her, it sounds all positive to me...she ignores you because she is shy and does not want to appear to excited about you, but just try talking to her a bit and see how she warms up to you.
Most of all don't worry, just have fun and try to relax when you are around her and when you think about her.
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