A
female
age
30-35,
*endall
writes:My girlfriend is always thinking im hiding things from her... but im not... i feel like shes hiding things from me... She dated this girl from a different state over the internet before we got together and the girl was like completly obsessed with her... she sent me emails telling me that my gf was telling her she still wanted to be with her and stuff like that we broke up over it the first time but my gf swore up and down that it wasnt true... then out of the blue my gf tells me this girl is coming to visit... I told her id be really mad but she told me i had to understand they were just friends even though they dated before. I asked her where this girl was staying while she was here since my gf lives with me and she said they would get a hotel room together!! I got furious and said i didnt want her seeing the girl at all i yelled at the girl for even thinking about it and just got myself really worked up about it. That same night this girl told one of my friends she was mad she couldnt come because her and my gf might of worked things out and got back together if they talked in person. What am i supposed to think??? This was a couple weeks ago and since then i have made my girlfriend get rid of all contacts with her. Im hoping shes not talking to her and i do check her email and myspace but only because shes sitting right there with me. Am i wrong for being mad? I cant get over thinking about it... i do want to spend the rest of my life with this person and i am her first real love she tells me... i know she was lying before about not telling her that stuff in my heart and i already have trust issues from past relationships. Should i just forget about the things she has done and learn that she's finally done and now she wants to be with me and me only?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2007): Do you want to spend the rest of your life wondering about all the crap in your life or do you want a peaceful, happy future with someone you can trust???? I've learned that once they start lying it just snow balls from there!! Pick up the pieces of your heart while you still can and move on....to a better relationship!!!
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