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Did our play fighting actually turn him on? Any advice?

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Question - (23 February 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 24 February 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi im 16. me and my bf have been 2gether For 2 months and he has never tried anything with me or anything cos he's not like that. he's really nice! :D all we have done so far is kiss (without tongues) and hug.

he came round my house 2day and we were playing catch and throwing this lil ball at each other and play fighting. then when we were play fighting he jokingly tried to put the ball down my top and i was fighting him away playing! :)

he has never done this sort of thing before and i dont mind. do you think he was getting turned on and stuff thats why he tried to do it????

(but he didnt get an erection or anything and he never has had an erection when with me)

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A female reader, willywombat United Kingdom +, writes (24 February 2007):

willywombat agony auntChances are yes, he is an probably full of raging hormones! Putting this ball down your top was probably an excuse to touch you! Any excuse works when you don't know haow to approach somebody!

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A male reader, moomoomoo United States +, writes (24 February 2007):

moomoomoo agony auntlol i would be turned on... and how do you know he never gets an erection?? isnt it always in his pants?? LOL

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A female reader, me616 United States +, writes (24 February 2007):

Well, I think that he wasn;t turned on. From what you say "he's not like that" well maybe he wasn't tuned on. Boys are stupid. It was probably just a game. Best Wishes

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2007):

hi there, i am not too sure if he was turned on in this situation or just really enjoying the game. he may have seen it as a rare opportunity to get close to you without acting all pressured to do something he might not think he should be doing just yet. if you enjoyed it, try it again! its fun, gets you close and always helps along the chances of something different happening!

have fun and stay safe!

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (24 February 2007):

cd206 agony auntWell.... he's a 16 year old boy. I'm fairly sure that however innocent your relationship is, you saying hello is enough to turn him on. However, I think maybe you're reading too much into your game. Sounds like an unthinking gesture that had the potential to become this big awkward space between you. If you're not comfortable with him putting balls down your top tell him that but honestly, I wouldn't worry. It just sounds like a game that went a little further than you both imagined it would.

CD

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