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*arah52wadley
writes:been with my boyfriend for four months, its been fab in all ways. we spent the week in london this week and it was great. i even asked him if we were spending too much time together. he said no not at all, im loving every day. He also said he wished we were together in 30 years time. when i asked if he meant it he said yeah definatly. On sat before we drove back i had my hair cut short and spiky ( already short) he was really off all evening then when it came to going out i left him to go out with his mates because he was so off. he eventually told me he didnt like my hair cut, and thought it wasn't feminine. which is fine, it will grow. then i stayed with him last night and he was totally distant. no cuddles nothing. which is the total opposite of him usually. Normally we would have sex or kiss or just cuddle. NOTHING !! Before i left the house this morning i asked if we were ok and if he was happy. he said yes........then I got a text this afternoon saying. i need some space from us not sure if its what i want at the moment. what do i do. he wants two weeks space to suss out in his head.... i know he is stressed with uni work as he is training as a teacher and goes back in two weeks. but i have been hurt by the last two blokes and he is different. he tells me im pretty and takes me out and is generally a good guy. we have loads in common too. He is not a nasty guy. i just dont understand why the sudden change on sat. then the texts today. as soon as we drove home after i had my hair done i noticed a difference. and all week he kept saying he was happy and ok. and having fun.. then almost as soon as i see him after my hair he is distant.. please help. i really like him. and i know he likes me he told me. is it the fact i look different to him..
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reader, Just me...  +, writes (10 April 2007):
maybe YOU didn't like your haircut deep down and you were sending him negative vibes which caused him to be like this in the first place. my other answer is.... everybody has a bad haircut in their lives and if he is willing to throw away a perfectly good relationship over a bad cut then he is very very shallow. You seem like a great girl and don't let a guy like that think you are not worth something special! for god sakes... IT WILL GROW!! and im sure it looks great anyway, so tell him to grow up and be the man he is supposed to be!!! xx
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