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Can a normally good and genuine person become a cheat?

Q.   Is it possible to be a good person who loves a man with all her heart to become a nasty cheat after a lot of hurt, but is it possible for the same person to be loving and faithful to the same man when they both realize they messed up? I know what ...

A.   18 February 2009: I have been dating a married man for 2 years now. Its awful. I am ending it. He tries to tell me he is a genuine good person who has never been through this or even thought of doing this to his wife. He says he has never felt this madly in love with ... (read in full...)

I love him and he wants to leave his fiance for me

Q.   Ive been with a guy who has a fiance. We have become so close that he wants to leave her, he says he has never felt this way... he cries to me because he is in such a mess... he tells me he is inlove with me and wants spend his life with me ins...

A.   1 July 2007: just to define... the decision is basically up to me now and i am very confused.... (read in full...)

I'm getting married to my gf, but I'm madly in love with a coworker.

Q.   I am getting married in less than 2 months to a girlfriend of 4 years, she has 3 kids from a previous relationship who I get along with well. The past year has been very rocky: we have argued quite alot over everything from sex to money, the ...

A.   11 May 2007: I am going through the same thing... although i am the coworker. The man i love is in your situation, we both work together and he is also getting married next year. He also says his relationship is on the rocks and he is not happy. We both... (read in full...)

Did my new short haircut turn him off me? What's up with this guyt?

Q.   been with my boyfriend for four months, its been fab in all ways. we spent the week in london this week and it was great. i even asked him if we were spending too much time together. he said no not at all, im loving every day. He also said he wished ...

A.   10 April 2007: maybe YOU didn't like your haircut deep down and you were sending him negative vibes which caused him to be like this in the first place. my other answer is.... everybody has a bad haircut in their lives and if he is willing to throw away a ... (read in full...)

How can I tell this girl, online, that I would like to go out on a date?

Q.   how can i ask this girl online that i would like to go out on a date? it's too hard to bring it up. any ideas? ...

A.   9 April 2007: i think you should spend some time with her as a friend... show you are interested and go from there... what is the worst that could happen? she could say no, but is that the worst thing in the world? take a chance and go for it! Good luck x... (read in full...)

I want to trust this one but I always get paranoid!

Q.   I have had quite a few relationships and i am in one now, but i cant trust my boyfriend, i get paranoid if his phone is off or he doesnt reply to my texts. We have only just started dating but he lives about 20 miles away from me and im scared ...

A.   8 April 2007: My advice to you is to relax and trust him... Trust him until you cant... what is the worst that could happen? If he betrays you, then you know he is not the man for you and there is someone else out there perfect for you. You will know... (read in full...)

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