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writes:Hello, I am a 16 year old female. My ex-girlfriend is going out with my ex-best friend at the moment. The thing is that I am in love with her and she knows it. Her girl friend does not want her talking to me but she does anyway because she says she feels like she needs to talk to me and that it makes her happy. Anyway, my ex came over last night for a bonfire. We went upstairs earlier than everyone else because she was tired. To help her sleep, I ran my fingers through her hair for a while. The next morning she text me asking why I kept getting closer to her as I was playing with her hair. I told her it happens naturally, and that I do not notice it. She replied back saying, "haha oh, okay. I thought you were trying to kiss me XD...I was like oh no!" I told her I wanted to but I would not because she is dating my ex best friend. She said, "haha I kept opening my eyes. I was making sure you didn't kiss me ;)" Obviously, this all makes it seem like she is not interested one bit, but I am wondering do you think she would have actually wanted me to kiss her? We have a strange 'relationship'. She usually does everything she can to make her girl friend happy, but one thing she refuses to do is stop being friends with me, even knowing that it is what hurts her girl friend the most. I apologize for this long post.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOh, that makes a lot of sense. Thank you.
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reader, Abella +, writes (27 April 2012):
 Oh she still has feelings for you. She was hoping you would kiss her. So if the kiss was revealed or discovered by anyone else (especially her new girl friend) then she could try to play the innocent and say that you kissed her.
She already has a relationship. But she is starting to be a little eager to flirt with others, a little.
I think she is playing games. She would not mind re-kindling a relationship with you BUT the problem is that she still want to keep her current girlfriend and keep you on the side.
Don't fall for her manipulation. If she is interested in you then she has to do the right thing by her current girlfriend.
Otherwise one could say that she loves neither you nor the other girl. And instead she wants the thrill of leading on two girls at the same time.
As much as you care about her and still want to be with her and have a strong simpatico together - she is STILL being mean by offering you little, wanting to use you a lot. And then paint you as the one who led her astray to cheat on her current girlfriend - despite it being demonstrably true that you care about her, but she is not available to you 24/7
Protect your heart by refusing to play her games.
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