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writes:my best friend was seeing a guy for around 6 months. ive only been really close to her for around 5 months but ive knew the guy she was seeing for 7 or 8, and since i first met him i liked him. they broke up and a week later i slept with him. since the first time i slept with him, i havent stopped, i see him a few times a week and sometimes we just chill out and watch films and stuff. she already knows weve slept together and shes really fell out with me. am i really bad person? what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2010): After only a week since splitting up was mean. If they split up years ago and you knew she had moved on then that would be okay. If you had fallen in love then maybe it could have been forgiven,but it looks like you did it just because you could.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (24 April 2010):
I'm afraid you've walked into it. The rule is never sleep with a best friend's ex, because this can happen. Worse still he's probably just using you as a rebound. Learn from this mistake.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2010): thats horrible! how could u do that to ur "best friend"? that is such an egocentric thing to do and i love how u try to justify it by saying that u knew the guy for longer.
listen, there is this rule about not sleeping with friends exbfs and it is there for a reason! she was seeing this guy for 6 months which means it wasnt just some casual fling, there were emotions involved. and for u to leap on just as they had broken up is a terrible move. it takes much more time to get over a bf u have just broken up with when they immediately start seeing new people. usually it brings back those old feelings and its a very painful experience... but to see ur best friend be with ur ex.... now thats like a stab in the heart.
havent u realised that hes probably using u ... either for sex or as a rebound?
there is nowhere ull ever achieve more with him than simply being his sex toy. i hope that u get to experience what ur "best friend" is going through because that will be the only way ud realise the amount of pain u have caused.
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