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writes:Should I or shouldn't I? Sometimes, i think of my ex and I wonder if he thinks of me too. rarely are the times I think of him positively being that he made me go through so mamy emotional hardships. Times I thought he loved me and other times I totally felt he hated me. From a man's perspective, is sex emotionally tied to some men or do they just do it without care? I am wondering because I want to know if he trully loved me the time he came back to me while being with his new girlfried. However, I must say he mocked me a lot with that other girl. She would text me saying he was her the night I confronted her with the truth. she mocked me and said many hurtful things which he told her to text. Some where many intimate hurtful things. My friend told me that I shouldn't believe her on my ex being with her that night. I am not with him anymore, but my loneliness makes me wish for him , remember him and wish to have him again, especially on those days we were happy. I wanted to persue him, being that he tried to get back to me two weeks after that confrontation. should i try it out again? If so, why and how? If not, why and how can i get him off my mind?
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (3 July 2009):
Look, he's a jerk. Who cares if he truly loved you? Sure, you're lonely. But you really think of yourself so poorly that you want to subject yourself to this guy again? Work on yourself and self worth, cause this guy isn't worth it. He'll break your heart again, then you'll be angry for letting him back into your life. You'll just be back at square one again. More forward and not back.
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (3 July 2009):
 No, don't contact him to ask this question. You won't get a straight answer and you will give him the opportunity to play more head games with him. I do not think he loved you. Which is probably why he is now your "ex" and should stay there. Let him torture some other poor gal. It's time for you to move on and not look back. Love does not mock, or become cruel.
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