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writes:Hi im puzzled about my ex but hope Im not getting my hopes up too high. We split 3 months ago and I broke all contact with him and hadnt spoke to him for all that time. Anyway, yesterday I received a very weird txt from him, basically it was about something he knew I would answer to, but when I rang him he said he sent it to me by mistake. I asked how this happened and he said it was just an accident and then he all of a sudden asked how I was. I said I was OK and asked how he was and then he asked if I was going out that night as he was. I said I didnt know. When I went to say goodbye and finish the call he told me to give him a call if I was gonna go out that nite and I said I would. I went out but didnt call him and I havnt heard from him since. But what does this mean? My friend thinks he did mean to send me that message just to get me to talk to him. What do u think? I would love it if that were true as I would love to get back wiv him. What should I do now?
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (16 November 2007):
 I think he sent that text just to have an excuse to talk to you. I know I pull that kind of thing sometimes (it's stupid, but it works... you replied, didn't you?). Next time you hear from him, via fake "accidental" text, tell him "LOOK. If you want to talk to me, call me up. Text ME. You don't have to pretend!"
Good luck, sister!
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (16 November 2007):
 I would tend to agree with your friend if its something that he knew you would respond too, then he tried to cover his tracks by claiming it was a mistake. I would be more inclined to see it as a mistake if he hadnt followed up by asking you to ring if you were out which was obviously intended as lead-on to asking if you could meet up, or 'accidently' bumping into each other. Not calling him was probably a mistake because he may well have taken that as a sign you are not interested. I think one of you has to take the lead in declaring how you feel and it doesnt look likely it will be him so I think its up to you...good luck :)
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (16 November 2007):
 He could have sent it by mistake but then why would he askj you to ring if you were going out,i think he did it just so you would get in touch, and if you want to get back with him get in touch with him he already made the first move by trying to get you to ring him
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