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Dating a sexually suggestive woman, how do I turn her on without scaring her off?

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Question - (23 February 2012) 5 Answers - (Newest, 24 February 2012)
A male Saudi Arabia age 36-40, *rancedRhythmEar writes:

I recently started somewhat seeing a slightly older woman and yesterday she was fairly sexually suggestive with her texts, but not sexting. Instead, I played along and made her laugh a lot with my sexual humor. Of course this tells me she is more than likely attracted to me. Next time I see her and if we do start up that frame of humor again I want to REALLY turn her on by saying "I am willing to do anything you want me to do in the bedroom". I have select few limits which she doesnt know about however Im comfortable in saying everything. Do you ladies find that spontaneous response a turn on? Should I try something different? I just met her and want to sink my teeth in right away lol but wanna make her excited, not scare her off with my sexual openness. Thanks.

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A male reader, TrancedRhythmEar Saudi Arabia +, writes (24 February 2012):

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TrancedRhythmEar agony auntHave a date with her tues. My objective is to close ass.

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A male reader, TrancedRhythmEar Saudi Arabia +, writes (23 February 2012):

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TrancedRhythmEar agony auntAt first it was I'll be honest because the changes I had to make to my personality were huge. Now, those changes are much easier to handle after a bit of practice with women.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (23 February 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntif you have to work that hard to be what you are not isn't it exhausting?

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A male reader, TrancedRhythmEar Saudi Arabia +, writes (23 February 2012):

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TrancedRhythmEar agony auntYeah like I can be myself around women. It wont create attraction. I prefer to maintain the changes ive made, including thinking about each word that comes out of my mouth.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (23 February 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntHow about if you just be yourself since it's gotten you this far???

What works for one person may not work for another. Not all women will find the same thing a turn on...

if she's being sexual with you then I doubt anything you say short of "I want to tie you up and beat you" will probably be ok...

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