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Dating a new guy but my ex is back on the scene....what should I do?

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Question - (25 July 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 July 2011)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

so there was this guy i dated for almost 4 yrs, we were crazy in love and he meant the world to me,after 1 yr of being together i feel pregnant we were so happy life was perfect for us, when our daughter was born things were great, but she fell terribly ill at 6 months old and sadly passed away at 13months, after that i got extreamly depressed and pushed evey one away who tried to help including my partner i never wanted to talk to him and treated him so badly, i do feel terribe for the way i acted towards him as i do understand that he lost our baby to and it was just as hard for him as it was me, but 10 months after she passed he cheated on me, he told me that he just couldnt be with me any more and i wasnt the person he once loved and he broke up with me i was more lost than ever i had lost the to people who ment so much to me,

recently i have been dating this new guy hes so sweet and kind, i cant say i love him just yet but i know some day i could, but a few nights ago my ex texted me saying he made a mistake and he feels bad for leaving me and he loves me and wants us to get back together i really dont know what to do cause i love my ex and always will my my new man means a lot to me as well i havent spoken to my ex since we broke up so this text came as a complete suprise to me, im just so lost and dont jnow what to do

please help me any advice would help ....... thanks

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (25 July 2011):

dirtball agony auntI'm a firm believer that exes should stay in our past. Let the past be the past. However, you should consider what the fact that you're even considering leaving your current BF means. It tells me that you're not really into him either.

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