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writes: for some reason i'm so depressed. i was round my friends house, we are best friends. she has a 9month boyfriend. she was extremely upset because of her boyfriend. and she was cryin on my shoulder for 3hours. i really felt sorry for her, she said boys always break hearts, they are so selfish and mean. i actually have feelings for her, i just wish she was with me and i could show her not all boys are like that!i came home, very depressed not because what she said but just because she was so upset. i remembered about every girl i fall in love with always get's a boyfriend before i get the chance to ask her. what can i do? i really want to ask my friend out but she is still with her boyfriend? i dont want to love a girl because all that ever happens is i get hurt when they find someone else! is something wrong with me? i wish my friend could see how much i love her but all that ever happens is i never even get the chance to ask them out! i like this girl in my school, i dont know her much, shall i just ask her out when i see her? before suddenly she gets a boyfriend. it sucks, and my arm reminds me as it still hurts and bleeds! please help!
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reader, Sonworshipper +, writes (20 November 2006):
Hey dude, never give up that caring part of you.
I lost it for a long time & am only now getting it back... But remember, you can't love others if you don't love yourself - I used to want to be loved so that in some way it would complete me - no one can do that for you, except maybe God. Girls generally have a "self-love" or self confidence radar and they won't give you the time of day if they don't feel that you have self-confidence, it forces them to confront their own problems. But don't shun your caring nature or virginity.
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