A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hallo everyone!My BF went for this B-party in a Hotel Room in New York city with 15 other guys this saturday. Didn't directly tell me what happened over there, except, that he didn't do anything wrong that would hurt me ... and that he didn't cheat (and I trust him in this cause I know he loves me) .. that he was just videotaping the whole thing. That people were doing things ... I asked if they had strippers and prostitutes .. he didnt say a word ... so I quess they did ... Anyway ... Can anyone tell me what usually goes on, on these parties? I am just curious .... Thx
View related questions:
prostitute, stripper Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2007): Ask to see the tape.
?
Or maybe you should have some fun of your own.
Get a bunch of your girlfriends out and go stick some dollar bills in male strippers g-strings.
Get a lap dance too.
A
female
reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (4 October 2007):
 Hi,
My boyfriend went to one, before he was with me. And he says there were girls there they could have sex with if they wanted to. And all sorts of stuff went on.
The trouble is that your boyfriend has been swept along with it, and joined in. I dont mean that he had sex with anyone, but he was there. But in his defence, what is he suposed to say, "I cant be here with all of you, my girl will go mad"?.
You know what Guys are like, they are all like kids. They never grow up and dont want to look like a coward to their friends. If he says he didnt do anything bad, and you trust him. I would just leave it.
I would be very jelous if my boyfriend went to one now, but what can you do?.
XX
...............................
A
female
reader, stina +, writes (4 October 2007):
 Hi Anonymous,
It really depends on the kinds of girls that were hired to be there. I know of cases where girls have just taken off their tops, and cases where they've straddled a guy and he's taken a lollipop out of her cooch with his mouth (eugh!! gross!! I wasn't there, but my b-i-l was and said it was really nasty, so he left with a bunch of other guys.)
The point is not what actually happens at the parties, but whether or not your relationship has a good foundation based on honesty, trust and communication. Do you really have reason to believe that your guy did anything wrong while he was there? If so, I think that *those* are the issues that need to be discussed, and the party is just one example that you could use in your "argument" with him.
Do you trust your boyfriend? (This is a question to think about to yourself; you don't necessarily have to answer on this page.)
Take care.
...............................
A
female
reader, lisa21 +, writes (4 October 2007):
i wouldn't stay with someone like that! he's obviously taped people stripping having sex etc, how'd he feel if it was the other way round. sorry but he don't care bout you. you deserve better.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2007): It sounds like a sex party.
...............................
A
male
reader, eddie  +, writes (4 October 2007):
 Nobody but your boyfriend can tell you what went on at that particular party and that's the one that bothers you. Why did they need a hotel room?
...............................
|
