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Crush on my history teacher!

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Question - (17 December 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 22 December 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

i think i like my teacher , hes a history teacher and i love history but im too shy in class to talk to him hes tall and good looking i think hes about 35 i dont know what to do i cant even look him in the eye i know its just a crush but i really like him , i dont think he likes me back ? what shall i doooooo

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2012):

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Thanks to everyone who answered, I really appreciate it. I'm going to try and find someone my own age and get rid of this silly crush.

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A male reader, scottmartinez2012 United States +, writes (18 December 2012):

scottmartinez2012 agony auntTake it as a childhood crush which you shall keep it forever and when you grow old you would rethink about your childhood memories and laugh about it.

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A female reader, k_c100 United Kingdom +, writes (18 December 2012):

k_c100 agony auntAs I'm sure you know, teachers cannot have relationships with students. If he did have a relationship with you, or even get close to you at all the following things would happen to him:

1. He would be fired immediately by the school and never allowed to come back onto the premises

2. He would be reported to the police by the school, who would the arrest him.

3. He would have to go to court for a trial where he would most likely be found guilty, and then he would go to prison for a number of years

4. His family and friends would disown him, never wanting to see him ever again because of what he did

5. He would have a criminal record for life, meaning he probably wont get another job ever again

So as you can see, none of this is good - do you really want this to happen to him? If you like him that much then you wont want to hurt him like this or jeapordise his happiness, so you need to leave him alone.

Having a crush is fine, as long as you dont try and do anything about it. There are lots of tall, attractive men in the world and if you find him attractive that is ok. You can admire him from afar! But you cant try and act on your crush, that would be very bad for both of you. He would end up in prison and you would end up being taken to the school counsellor, is that what you want?

Focus on your studies, and leave him alone. Try and find a boy closer to your own age to have a crush on.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2012):

Get rid of your feelings before they escalate, it will only end in heartache. If he's a professional he wouldn't return your feelings- don't waste them, save them for somebody who feels the same.

From,

Somebody whose worn the t-shirt

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