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writes:I have a big crush on my male hairdresser. He is a few months younger than me and we are both single parents. He is really handsome and has a really lovely personality. We are very similiar as he teaches full time but helps out in his families business and is well travelled.Sometime ago I asked for some information for my son and I gave him my card. He looked really uneasy. He did not respond. The second time I went to get me hair done he was really off with me.I felt embarrased as I felt he thought I was coming on to him. I avoided the hairdressers for a while and went again last week end. He did my hair by his own choice. We talked and talked about everything. He did not know my name. I have looked him up on facebook and My Space and he seems very popular. Can not understand why a single parent would still be unattached. He has twins.I get on well with his sister who also works there P/T and she is always filling me in on his life. His mother is really kind and pleasant to me as well.The only problem is is that they all know my last child's father who is making me so miserable and depressed. I have not seen him for weeks, he does not introduce me to his family and I am ready for out.Any suggestions?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for all your responses. The hairdresser has been a single parent since the children were very young anf his mother and sisters helped bring up the twins. They are now 14.
On Facebook and My space there are mainly men and groups only a few females.
I plan to make it a point at my next visit that it is not right not knowing my name as a customer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2009): I like what older sister had to say about this. But it seems that you are vulnerable at this time due to the way your current relationship is going and you are feeling attraction to your hairdresser because you get to sit in his chair for an hour and he talks to you I imagine.
I wouldn't put too much importance on how nice his siter and mom are to you, they are most likely trying to make you a consistent client and they may have ulterior motives and are trying to play matchmaker for him when he probably doesn't need it.
If you are really interested in him, I would try to just get more acquainted when you are in his chair and he will probably ask you out....although most hairdressers try not to cross boundaries with their clients...they remain professional, which is why he was uncomfortable perhaps with your gesture, but I wouldn't get too worried about it, you just caught him off guard....
It really depends on whether you want to pursue relationship and loose a hairdresser if he isn't interested, you already felt you had to avoid the place, or just get over your crush and keep him as a friend and your hair guru....
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (31 May 2009):
 How long has he been a single parent?
I'm guessing he used to be married? I'm not sure how his marriage ended, but perhaps he's still grieving for his marriage.
If you're close to his mom and sister, you could discuss this with them... do you think you can trust them to keep a secret? That you want to be his friend, but you sense you made him uncomfortable. I don't like to go behind someone's back, but you're not saying anything mean about him.
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