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writes:Here's the story. I'm going into grade 12 and have a crush on one of my friends from camp who is going into second year at university. I worked up the courage to let her know that I liked her, even though I knew that she didn't like me. Although I am disappointed, I am fine with just being friends.The problem is that I would like to spend some more time with her before she leaves in 2 weeks, but we don't have mutual friends that I hang out with. I don't want to ask her to hang out with me because she might think I am asking her out, which I don't want to do because I'm fine with the fact that she doesn't like me. What should I do? Thanks for your help.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (22 August 2009):
 I think you should sort of forget about her. It's not cool for a college gal to date a kid from highschool. It's only cool to date younger men when you're 30. Otherwise it just looks pathetic. Maybe in a few years, she'll be more interested in you, once you've gotten into uni, you won't seem that much younger than her (you're really not that much younger, but it's the leap from high school to college that's not helping things). Also you may just not be her type. Go for someone more attainable. Best of luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNot too big of an age difference. I'm 17 she's 19.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2009): because im english im not quite sure of the age differnece between you and your friend so i dont know how close the ages are so sorry
what i do know is if you are friends then why should she think that you are asking her out if you just want to hang out? don t be shady about it and just ask her straight outif she wants to do something just be confident otherwise if you were nervous then she would guess !?
why dont you join in with her friends im sure if u have things in common with her then you just might stuff in common with them?
good luck and just chillax whilst talking to her and dont read to much into it if she says she's busy
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