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writes:Hey, I'm 13 and currently at high school I started to like a kid a at school called Oliver and then I just thought that I was just a crush bit that was 2 and a bit years ago and I've grown obsessed I think about him all the time sometimes when I'm writing things in class I start to doodle his name in a heart and stuff like that, I've recently found out my best best friend Lucy likes him as well but that actually was a small crush she is pretty, funny and the kindest person you will ever meet, Oliver had just broken up with Izzy who had been going out with him for ages and they do look kinda adorable together but obviously he is a dude and they have a 'rebound' girlfriend and he knew Lucy liked him so he asked her out to make Izzy jealous because Lucy is probably 5 timed prettier than her, no joke, anyway I know I'm young and I have tried but can you give me some advice to get over him, please? Thank you so much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2016): Don't worry, at your age, crushes come and go. They get really intense; and the next thing you know, they fade-away.
You are going through puberty and discovering boys. Your mind and body are going through big changes; and everything seems so hard to understand. You can't get thoughts out of your head, and it seems that every guy you like; likes somebody else.
It's a phase, and it even happens to grown-ups three times your age. You just ride it out. It goes away like a fever.
You're a normal teenager, and you're supposed to discover your feelings. It just takes time to understand them and learn how to handle them.
It helps when you find other things to keep your mind occupied, and spend more time with your friends. Enjoy games and hanging-out to get your mind off boys. You're spending too much of your spare time daydreaming about boys and doing nothing else.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (19 September 2016):
 What you're describing is a typical teenage crush and typical teenage "dating" drama. Stay out of the drama and just tell yourself to stop doodling when you start and to stop thinking of him when it creeps up on you :)
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