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writes:I have had a crush on a guy for nearly a year but can not seem to get things moving. His mum really admires me for what I do and who I am career wise and as an individual. I get on with his sisters. We are very similiar in what we do professionally. Where I see him is at his families business and it is almost inpossible to speak to him unless he is doing my hair.This evening I was there and was dying to speak to him and move things on but was only about to say hellow and happy new year - the place was so busy.I am currently trying to salvage my current relationship but he was not with me new years, have not met mum or family, not talking about a more commitmented relationship. Do not feel this relationship is going any where.I get on so well with this guy that I am tempted to ask his mum about him as he is currently sporting a wedding ring but I know for a fact he is not married.Has anyone got any ideas how I could move this on. His sister is due to link with me on facebook and I feel this may help me link with him. I cant really ask him out when he is working. when we do talk everyone is listening.
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (1 January 2010):
 I'm sorry if I sound a little rude here, but you sound potentially stalker'ish.. Using his family to get close to him.
If you are interested either call him up or ask him out. Take it from there.
BUT, don't hang on to the other guy to to have a man around. That just seems.. wrong.
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