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Crush confusion

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Question - (6 July 2018) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 July 2018)
A female United States age 13-15, anonymous writes:

My crush is a friend of mine and we hangout a bit outside of school like at the park, and I told him I like someone new cuz he knew my previous crush as for we has the same one cuz hes bi and now he wont stop asking me who I like is this somewhat of a sign?

also one time while he was giving me reasosn to tell him I told I'm I don't trust him, (that's a lie) and he was like ( but you know who I like and i would tell you who I like(he doesn't like anyone currently from what I know)Unless that's you, and the conversation went on but he said Unless that's you, basically he said if he liked someone he would tell me unless it is me, is this a sign, occasionally he would tell me I look pretty or complement me but most of the time he tells me I'm gross but that's our relationship,

ehhh plz help, and do you have any tips on how I can get him

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (10 July 2018):

aunt honesty agony auntYou are at an age now where crushes will happen a lot! If you really like him then I think you should tell him, the worst that can happen is that he says he doesn't feel the same, and yes it might hurt you but at least then you know the truth.

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A male reader, WiseOwlE United States + , writes (6 July 2018):

You're 13, and you'll crush all over the place. Your crushes will change by the week, and some may only last that long.

Don't tell your friend you're crushing on him. He doesn't feel the same; and if he is bi (there's really no such thing at only 13) he is still trying to figure-out if he likes girls or boys.

It's hilarious that kids think they can determine their sexual-orientation before they even complete puberty! You may have a leaning; but you have to be older and understand sexuality and how to process it through a more mature mind. You're kids and you really haven't figured things out beyond "crushes."

Your crush will soon go-away. Just stay friends. Don't tell him every boy you like, it's none of his business. Sometimes people only want to know to stick their noses in it. Best you let him like who he likes, and you like whom you want to like. Learn how to keep some things private.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2018):

Yes he likes you! Definitely. Guys will play the best friend to get with you. Sounds to me like he’s flirting & trying to suss our if you like him! If you want to get with him you can. I would expect he’ll tell you his feelings soon but don’t wait for it as it is risky for him to say if he thinks you might not like him back. Keep up the flirting and try to get some more one on one time. & drop hints that you like him. Eventually try to watch a movie together at night I’m sure he’ll try to kiss you!

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