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Could your hymen break from being fingered? Does precum represent a risk?

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Question - (27 July 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 25 November 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I have two questions. One is my bf and I were fooling around and I was stroking him and he fingerd me. Could your hymen break from being fingered cause after I had a little blood when I went to the bathroom and wiped myself.

Second question is: when I was rubbing my bf's penis this wet stuff came out I think it was precum or whatever but he put his penis in my vagina could I get pregnant from that?

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A female reader, sensible one United States +, writes (25 November 2009):

ans #1 it is possible for it to break and maybe he was doing it hard. ans. #2 its is also possible as the wet stuff is known as semen aka "cum" n it could get you pregnant.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2008):

I asked this question. I can't exactly get a test or go to the docters my mother never lets me go anywhere by myself and she can't know if she finds out I'm taking test like that I'm dead. I really hope I'm not pregnant I'm definetly not ready for this I'm only 19 and my bf isn't ready either. He doesn't make enough money for this. Crap crap crap.

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A female reader, kastheshizz United States +, writes (27 July 2008):

kastheshizz agony auntwhen i got fingered too blood came out its okayy it went away. your FINNEEE. and yes you could get pregnant from that, be careful!

use a condom.

hope i can help.


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A male reader, Chestnut United States +, writes (27 July 2008):

Yeah..I agree you use a condom everytime.

I don't know how but Me and My Gf did it without protection about two times and somehow..she hasn't gotten pregnant. But just keep in mind to ALWAYS wear protection even if you or your friend wouldn't want to

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2008):

Yes to both of your questions.

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A female reader, happytochat Australia +, writes (27 July 2008):

1. Yes your hymen can be broken from being fingered. If you havent had sex before, but your hymen has been broken due to fingering, you are still a virgin.

2. Yes, the stuff that came out was probably precum which can get you pregnant since his penis went in your vagina. Even if his penis just touched the outside of your vagina, you could still get pregnant if any cum or pre cum comes near you.

So I think its best for you to go to your doctor or get a pregnancy test from the shops. The chances are as high as if you had proper sexual intercorse, but the possibility is still there. so put your mind at rest by taking a test. and for next time, use a condom to prevent a scary situation like this.

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