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She said I need to date someone my age. What does she mean really?

Q.   Dear Savants of Dear Cupid, You all have given me sage advise the numerous times I've ventured forth. You've saved me from wrecking my ship against the rocks, for which I thank you. A question: "What does this mean?" The tennis player conta...

A.   13 August 2013: There's that saying, "You never see yourself as the world sees you". And it kept running through my mind as I read and re-read all of the insightful and keen responses that all of you sent over. All of them made me do some introspective re... (read in full...)

We were getting along fantastically until I told her how taken I was with her, now I don't hear from her.

Q.   You guys have prevented me from making some monumental blunders in the past..see some of my past posts..But I've NEVER needed your help more than I do now! Scenario: I live in Wash, DC. I'm cycling back from tennis practice when I hear, from acr...

A.   3 December 2012: Thanks Serpico, Thanks for the optimistic support. Believe me, if I could write the screenplay for this comedy, what you've put forth is how it would play out. However, being a realist and an incurable optimist, I think the female responder... (read in full...)

We were getting along fantastically until I told her how taken I was with her, now I don't hear from her.

Q.   You guys have prevented me from making some monumental blunders in the past..see some of my past posts..But I've NEVER needed your help more than I do now! Scenario: I live in Wash, DC. I'm cycling back from tennis practice when I hear, from acr...

A.   1 December 2012: Honeypie, Thanks for your reply. please know that I have not sent anymore texts since 2 that I mentioned that happened right before Thanksgiving. Since she always responded right away, I definitely got the feeling that I'd done something wrong. ... (read in full...)

I desperatly need help from the male readers to understand my husbands behaviour.

Q.   I desperatly need help from the male readers to understand my husbands behaviour. We have a very active,loving(sometimes wild!) and happy sex life. So what does it tell me, if he sometimes has to sit down at the computer watching porn to please h...

A.   1 December 2012: Dear OP (and with all due respect to the 2 responders): It has been my experience that porn in a relationship where sex is definitely present is 'all about the fantasy'. Of course you may experience feelings of hurt, or "what am I not doing?" But,... (read in full...)

We were getting along fantastically until I told her how taken I was with her, now I don't hear from her.

Q.   You guys have prevented me from making some monumental blunders in the past..see some of my past posts..But I've NEVER needed your help more than I do now! Scenario: I live in Wash, DC. I'm cycling back from tennis practice when I hear, from acr...

A.   1 December 2012: Tom- Oops! Hit the back button by accident. So to finish that last statement: I'm sure it must have made her wary of such an outpouring of emotions considering the fact that we'd only met a few days earlier. Although I promise you there was neve... (read in full...)

We were getting along fantastically until I told her how taken I was with her, now I don't hear from her.

Q.   You guys have prevented me from making some monumental blunders in the past..see some of my past posts..But I've NEVER needed your help more than I do now! Scenario: I live in Wash, DC. I'm cycling back from tennis practice when I hear, from acr...

A.   30 November 2012: Hi Daisy_Daisy- Thanks so much for the quick reply. This is all very helpful and enlightening and explains soo much. Yes, to your question as to the introductions. That is exactly how he introduced himself and her. So, using that logic, they wer... (read in full...)

Having trouble getting into the dating scene!

Q.   I put forward a question here awile back and received excellent suggestions/opinions/advice. I thought I'd do it again. I'm a 55-year old male. For whatever reason, I've inherited the "youthful gene". No complaints about that. When people gues...

A.   24 August 2010:  I have a pool!?! I wish I lived in your neighborhood, as well, if you have a pool. Let me just state for the record, that I wouldn't have any guys over cleaning my pool..women-owned companies, only, for me. Thanks for the response/insight. ... (read in full...)

Having trouble getting into the dating scene!

Q.   I put forward a question here awile back and received excellent suggestions/opinions/advice. I thought I'd do it again. I'm a 55-year old male. For whatever reason, I've inherited the "youthful gene". No complaints about that. When people gues...

A.   24 August 2010:  To the two respondents, thanks for weighing in on this. Duly noted & greatly appreciated. To the first: I've been "least expecting it" for about 6+ years, now. Something has to give. The irony of it seems to be the element of self-fulfilling prop... (read in full...)

Could she be interested in me despite her male companion on the bus?

Q.   I have a situation for you: I see this young woman, occasionally, when we have managed to catch the same Metrobus on our short ride to work. (Different jobs, same exit.) We've caught each other's eye. She's very attractive; has this mys...

A.   12 May 2010: Apologies for the delay in responding to and acknowledging the comments, suggestions & opinions. None-the-less, Thanks a million. I normally listen to the little guy in my head, but to quote an episode, "My little guy can sometimes be an idio... (read in full...)

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