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writes:I am a 14 year old male and my cousins and friends keep trying to get me a girlfriend but the fact I want to join the military in the future as a medical technician. I dont think girls will want to date me if I wont be around in the future. Sombody please help, I want to know if a girl could possibly date me even though I wont be around for awhile (I plan on 1 tour of duty). Do you think there is sombody out there for me?
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reader, Gena Bullock +, writes (25 March 2008):
 There's somebody out there for everyone. Don't let your friends push you into a relationship. YOu may find someone overseas to fit the bill. Do this at your own pace...no connections now make room for your career and a better, more stable future for your loved ones. Let them worry about themselves and leave you alone to make your own decisions. The career move is obviously priority for you.
Be sensible and follow your heart.
Gena
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reader, JustCallMeB +, writes (25 March 2008):
It may be a little soon to stress about this. You're young and your dating life is just beginning. You'll have a lot of dates long before it comes time for you to start your career.
Some girls may want to date you because you have a career path planned and goals!
In life it seems that everyone does what is right for them at the time......everything will fall into place. Not to worry.
Just a note: When I met my husband....(some 15 years ago) he told me that he had joined the Navy and was shipping out in 5 months. It didn't affect my wanting to get to know him and "go out" with him. He actually proposed to me 2 weeks after we met. The rest is history.
Best of Luck!
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