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anonymous
writes:Confused. Don't know if I can be just a friend. Hello. My thanks to all of you that have helped me before, and I hope you can help me again. I still have strong feelings for a woman that just sees me as a friend now. We were involved in a long relationship together, and was going to get married once. It ended last year. Since then we have seen each other, have enjoyed each others company, and at times have be intimate with each other. She has been seeing other men during this time, I have seen no one, except her. She is seeing someone now after a stretch where it looked like (to me) that our relationship was improving. I feel like I have been blindsided. My emotions are up and down. I miss her one moment, and feel betrayed the next. I do not know what to do. Trying to be the stong silent type is becoming more difficult. What do I do? Thanks for your help. Reply to this Question
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reader, JessIzFit  +, writes (15 June 2007):
 Heya hun,
To be honest with you i think you should try and get ova her. It will be hard but i believe you can do it. Perhaps you could find another women to love. You could still be friends with her but i wouldn't recommend getting bk together with her. There is a person for every1, you will find the one for you, and they will love you soo much =)
Take care and i hoped I helped you a little bit
Louise
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reader, flower girl +, writes (15 June 2007):
 I think you need no matter how hard it will be to try and move on from this women because it sounds to me as though she is using you whenever it suits her she is keeping you dangling giving you false hope and then goes off and sees someone else tell her if she wants to be with you then thats fine and you would love to have her back but otherwise can she please leave you alone and let you get on with your life, find someone that will not mess you around like she has.
Take care.xx.
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