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Self conscious me is worried what she will think.

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Question - (26 April 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 April 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

hi I really like this girl. But there is a problim I have a very small penis, I am 33 and never had a girl friend or sex because of this. Like i said I really like this girl. Don't no what to do I am afraid she might just laugh at me if we ever have sex.

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A male reader, Mechanical Love United Kingdom +, writes (26 April 2010):

Hi there mate, I also agree with the other two replies you got up there. I got four points for you:

1) One thing wou don't see people saying is average penis size, it is always small or big. Be aware that this is no boolean classification. You may be average but you think you are small because you compare yourself with porn stars and other men which are picked ESPECIFICALLY because they are ABOVE average, hence you are mislead to think you are the small one when you are perfectly normal.

2) A larger penis does not mean better sex. I have a book about sex that I bought last year and the author is a lady. She did some research and pointed out that more than 85% of women are satisfied with the size of their partners penises. If a penis is too big, it hits the cervix, basically the entrance of the uterus, which can cause pain during sex.

3) Women do not go out with men because of their penis size. Serioulsy, I have a girlfriend and I and also spoke to a few more girl about that in my life, and they all agreed that size is not the important bit. It is a fact however, that some women prefer a larger penis, the same way some men prefer women with large breasts, it's just a preference. As far as I can tell, if this girl like you she won't even bother whether you are small, average or big. Show her how kind, how caring you are, she'll be with you for life ^^.

4) What tha hell are you still doing here reading this? Go talk to that gilr! Now! Ask her out! Cinema, aquarium, football match, anime convension, walk in the park, zoo, bowling, whatever mate, just go talk to her!

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (26 April 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntA small penis is not an obstacle to a relationship with a girl. You need to increase your confidence ,self esteem and increase your sexual techniques and knowledge to compensate for your small penis.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (26 April 2010):

CindyCares agony aunt If she laughs at you because of your penis size, she is a horrible rude insensitive person with whom you don't need to have anything to do. But it's very very improbable that this may happen. A normal woman does not like or dislike you because of your penis size.

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