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writes:Hi again, the other day, i asked for help for the situation between me and the 28 year old chef at work. When i went to work, i acted like nothing had happened, and it seemed to be ok. Towards the end of the night, however, i noticed him staring at me from in the kitchen, following my every move.After, me and my cousin and him were talking, and he was telling my cousin how hes "met someone" and he had been talking to her on facebook, but sadly she had a boyfriend, even though that didnt bother him, and neither did the fact that she was a bit younger than him. my cousin told him to forget her boyfriend and go for it and ask for her number, and he looked me right in the eyes and said "ok, i will". The girl he was describing was me.When i got home from work, he had sent me an email, saying something on the lines of "i dont know if you notcied but i couldnt take my eyes off you tonight, you were unbelievably gorgeous".The problem is, now, that not only am i begining to like his attention, i cant seem to stop thinking about him.. there he is sending me sweet emails, and saying sweet things, whereas my bf has lately been grumpy and wouldnt even hug me yesterday..im so confused, i need some views on the whole situation please. am i falling for him? and what about my boyfriend? (who im conviced i love)thanks for taking the time to read this x
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2009): original poster.
wow thanks for those two comments, they were really helpful. as an update, he emailed me on facebook, with a list of all the reasons he likes me, and he said next time he sees me hes going to grab me and kiss me, cos he cant hold back anymore.
im working on saturday with him .. help!!
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reader, Amber09  +, writes (9 July 2009):
 Maybe what you are experiancing right now just may be that you really miss some of the attention from your boyfriend.I know that it is so hard sometimes to be with someone that may not be giving the attention and affection u need..and how easy it is for us to go looking for it else where. Just wait it out and see how things pan out with your boy friend. He may just be having a rought time right now. Dont throw away your love for him because of someone u dont kno that well. Love is amazing and when u have it hold on to it...you dont know when something like that will come along again. But good luck and i wish the best to you!
Amber
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reader, Azula  +, writes (9 July 2009):
 Girl It's 12 o clock pm now at my place but I will do my best to give my comment.
As things is going on me. Don't be fooled too easy. Give your boyfriend a chance. Think all of the reasons why you answered yes when he asked you to be his girl. At this stage we can still say that the chef might be up to no good. It is still better to choose your boyfriend over him.
Don't entertain the chef. Let him cook his own plans but don't let yourself be the main ingredient.
Give your boyfriend the full extent of attention. He might be undergoing some problems and that's the time he needs you the most. That's all for now. I'll try to catch up with your follow ups. Investigate and discover more dear. Good night.
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