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Condom makes boyfriend lose it.. What is the problem??

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Question - (22 May 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 17 August 2007)
A female , anonymous writes:

for the last couple of times me and my boyfriend have tried to have sex its gone wrong. everything is going well then as soon as we get a condom out he loses his erection. why? what can we do?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2007):

I have this problem as well. Have always had it and tried everything (my partner putting the condom on with her mouth, some porn etc etc), but its just no good I have the condom phobia. Think its a mental thing plus I really cant feel anything with it on. Thats why I try to stick to one partner where we both get checked for sti's and she takes the pill. Thats the only way we can enjoy sex! Goodluck!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2006):

Alot of blokes dont like the way they feel and can lose it at the thought of putting it on or after its on etc. Its down to less stimulation. I dont wanna give you too much info but i prefer the feel of a woman instead of a peice of rubber between us etc..

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A female reader, willywombat United Kingdom +, writes (22 May 2006):

willywombat agony auntI have had a couple of Bf's who have had this self same problem. Often it is to do with the lack of spontaneity, struggling to put on the condom or emabarrassment.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2006):

Probably nervous, even though he wont admit it.

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