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writes:Hey guys, and gals =)I'm 14 (Turning 14 in 2 months wooohoo Learners license :D) Any who me and my gf have been going out for a month now and she's already given me a dry handjob of sorts :) Anyway I'm circumcised and I can still "Jerk off" But I use a knuckle move... sorta hard to explain, Problem is I have to lye on my side and move my whole body to do this, so I was just thinking, it feels good when she was touching my "Penis" dry but when she does it this Friday when she comes over (Not dry were actually going to do proper masturbation me rubbing her e.t.c....) She'll start rubbing the normal way :) But I'm not sure if I'll be able to cum? But she can't give me a handjob the way I do it either? So... What do I do? Got any Ideas? I'll still like her giving me a hand job but I'm not sure if I'll cum :(.So yeah :) Any Idea's would be good? Maybe someone else who is circumcised could explain what they did?Cheers :D
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reader, 2pac +, writes (4 August 2008):
2pac is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm gonna pass on Handjobs all together, this site here has had the exact same problem http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=154082
Me and my NEW girlfriend have talked about it lots and I'm happy to pass, but to all those with the same problem (Some other teenager out there spending his late night googling away trying to find an answer) there are a few ways you can try.
1. Lube.
(Ok this might not work, it didn't for me but it does for some people) you'll need lube and you're gonna have to be calm, if your nervous it's not going to work.
2. Make her give you Handjobs all the time as your only sexual relief! See the problem is that if your like me you've developed your own style of doing it... but! because you've done this style your body is used to it! So when your girlfriend tries to do a different style you can't cope with it and you simply don't like it! so if you have a super patient girlfriend and the willpower then you can reprogram yourself! here's some tips
1. Use lube or a condom every time
2. For the first 10 or so you're not going to cum, but you're going to want to really bad! see you probably masturbate a lot already and when you just completely cut that out your body craves it! like a drug! and if your getting something that's not quite as good, but still ok then you body will slowly accept it and after awhile it will cum! keep doing this and don't do your old technique and it will feel just as good if not better then your old technique! one problem is that you can't really jerk off your normal way... since it won't work since you've reprogrammed yourself!
3. Forget about handjob's all together, become a giver not a taker... you're girlfriend might be a bit cross... but sex still works hint hint ;)
Hope this helps?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2008): no girl can masturbate a boy the way a boy does to himself . just talk to her and try different things you will soon find a position that can make you cum. if your comfortable so she will
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2008): As you told me...go and see a doctor or health nurse who would be able to sort you out professionally.
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reader, 2pac +, writes (10 July 2008):
2pac is verified as being by the original poster of the question=)Will do :DSeeing her next Wednesday I'll make sure to bring lube :)Might have a we.... problem.... I can only get semi-hard lately :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008): Ahh sorry to here that.
Listen to the comments from G, they really help.
Shes probably very understanding so as you are doing, keep trying. Eventually you'll find a way around it!
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reader, 2pac +, writes (9 July 2008):
2pac is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDidn't go to well..... she tried rubbing up and down but since I don't have any skin there it didn't work well :S She did it for about 20 minutes it felt good... but not as good as it should of been :( I didn't cum...., Trying again in a week :) But with lube :D
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reader, 2pac +, writes (8 July 2008):
2pac is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSweet =)
I'll post back tomorrow and say how it went :P
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008): Haha fair enough.Yeah its not like Jewish parents can't reproduce. Just go for it.
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reader, 2pac +, writes (7 July 2008):
2pac is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOkey doke =)
Yeah can drive a car.. at 15 :P
uh sounds good, just doing the standard way doesn't really do anything for me? I've got two packet of lube though :) She seems interested in using that :P So I'll try that out :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008): its exactly the same as if you still had a foreskin just put some lubrication on and it will be fine
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (6 July 2008):
 On the basis of the historical fact that Jews continue to be fruitful and multiply, and, also, that moslems and many other people around the world are circumcised but the population still grows, I can tell you this much: yeah, you will cum.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2008): You can drive a car when your 14?!?! How unfair!!
In the mean time, may as well go for it. I mean I'm not circumcised but I think the only difference is the bit thats missing. You didn't take out anything. All the horomones all there. Just the excess stuff.
If it doesn't work then try again. I'm sure she'd understand because your obviously nervous about it.
Read other comments, they might help you.
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