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writes: Hi... I'm 29 (just as a matter of interest...) and I feel 16! I really fancy this guy who's a manager in a shop attached to a gas station locally. I go in to buy stuff I don't even need! Just to see him. I chat to him... he knows my name and I know his... but he's on my mind all the time and I really want Him to ask me out. I don't want to ask him...obvious reasons... afraid he'll say no... won't be able to show my face in the shop again etc... I just don't know what to do. He seems shy but always tries to serve me and sometimes looks out the window and waves. Gosh I really have it bad! I don't even know if he has a girlfriend! What should I do? Any flirting tips? Don't say "ask him out" cause that's not an option.Anything I could say or do to get a clue as to whether he likes me or not or is all this in my imagination do you think?
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reader, annabell +, writes (28 May 2006):
annabell is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi moonlight(sis!)! But that shop is so handy... and I'd be so embarassed if he said no... I just can't bring myself to do that... I am getting closer though... cause I'm sick of nothing happening
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reader, moonshine +, writes (28 May 2006):
Hi sunshine I think you should go in and just ask him out, if he says no there are plenty of other shops around to buy your unneeded milk and fags and coke in !!!!!!
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (28 May 2006):
 Well as far as does he have a girlfriend, without coming out and directly asking him Im not sure your going to find out. Try and bite the bullet and get chatting, and maybe something will evolve. Maybe leave a slip of paper with your number on, and ask him to call when he finishes work something like that. If you dont get teh call then hes either not intersted or he has a girlfriend. Either that or just ask him!
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reader, annabell +, writes (28 May 2006):
annabell is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you WendyG... I wish I knew alright. He's kinda nervous and figity when he serves me sometimes so you might be right-maybe he does like me but I wonder does he have a girlfriend - if I knew that it'd certainly help
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (28 May 2006):
The thing is he could be feeling exactly like you... too scared to ask! If you dont bite the bullet you may never know! See if you cant get into a conversation about stuff, things that you may have recently done and see if you cant find a commmon interest. He probably knows you like him, but doesnt know how to show it either. Go on take a risk!
Take care
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reader, annabell +, writes (27 May 2006):
annabell is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOh and by the way... he's no ring on so that's a good sign but doesn't mean he hasn't a gf...
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reader, annabell +, writes (27 May 2006):
annabell is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for responding. Do you really think he knows I like him...? My sister keeps saying the same... that i'll only find out if I ask etc. Then something you wrote looks like a good idea to me... when i'm going out and all dressed up etc just to say something casual about it... with a hint attached. I'm goin to try that next fridy... i know that's days away but i've stuff on for the next few days. Again thanks so much for your reply.
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reader, shellebell +, writes (27 May 2006):
Hi, the main question is if he is already attached or not. He probably knows that you like him and he obviously likes you if he keeps chatting to you. He may be really shy like you, or he may be just being friendly, or in a relationship. The only way you're going to find out is to ask, or wait until he asks you. Personally, I wouldn't wait too long as it could be wasted time when you could be lusting after some other hunk.
How about hinting as to where you are going out one night, maybe ask him where's nice locally to go for a drink/meal?
Perhaps a drink or two might give you a little dutch courage, (don't get plastered though!)
Don't be embarrassed though, he will no doubt be very flattered anyway and it's not as though you're asking him out directly.
Bite the bullet - actions speak louder than words. Flirt with him, be confident - if he's not interested there are plenty that are...Good luck.
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