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writes:Is it possible to be in love with two people at the same time?I have a b/f of 17 months, I think I do love him and like being in his company but we have recently began to argue and not get along so great as we used to.now I find myself confused and looking at an old friend of mine in different eyes. I feel like i realy like him and get upset when thinking of him with his g/f?I don't know what is going on in my head anymore and it makes me very depressed and makes me cry because i dont want to feel like this as it makes me feel guilty.PLEASE HELP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI just feel so stupid!Known my friend for years, since kids, and I always like him, u know?I fell for my b/f after 2 yrs of knowing him, but as u say everything is rosey with us, but we going on holiday soon, so hopefully will bring the spark back.maybe i feel like that about my friend cus he's got a g/f and hadnt ever had one b4, so then i feel i'm not wanted or summin.I didnt have a b/f till 20 myself and have always felt insecure and ugly, realy. people always told me my friend fancied me and stuff and maybe its a silly feeling of rejection sumhow? oh dear! He wud neva want me neway. lol
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (25 August 2007):
 I think its natural when things are far from ideal with one person to start looking around at other people. Obviously you and this guy have been close as friends so its only natural you are prehaps going to be drawn towards him. I would stop beating yourself up about it.
As to what you should you actually do...what is causing the fights with your bf?? Is it loads of little things or one big things? I think its important to remmeber that althought the grass does always look greener it isnt always and as you say yourself this other person is attached. Hope that helps. good luck :).
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reader, flower girl +, writes (25 August 2007):
 I think that it is possible to love two people at the same time, but i would say that i think it's a different kind of love for example like a brother and sometimes infatuation can be confused for love.
Maybe you should take some time out from both of them, spend some time on your own and see how you feel when you don't see them, you may feel drawn to one more than the other.
Take care.xx.
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