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Can you feel your hymen with a finger and whether it is intact or not?

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Question - (23 November 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 25 November 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey, I'm wondering if you can feel your hymen while fingering yourself? I'm a virgin, but I want to know if my hymen is still intact. Also, how likely is it that I will bleed when I first have sex? x

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (25 November 2007):

love-him agony auntHey hon, some people can, and some can't, if you can see a peace of skin at the opening then it is still there :) Some people bleed and some people dont.. it all depends on different women :) I hope i helped, Feel free to mail me aout anything x

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A female reader, disGRACEful United Kingdom +, writes (24 November 2007):

disGRACEful agony auntOk. Well every woman is different but its generally pretty easy to locate the hymen yourself. It is thin membrane that surrounds the opening to the vagina and is usually a 'cresent moon' shape.

If you can see the vagina opening then it has been torn.

If the vagina is still covered then it hasn't.

It is very stretchy so sometimes it doesnt actually tear during sex and only around 50% of womens hymens are torn during their first time.

I understand your confusion. I go to a catholic school and we never got any sex education so everything medical is self taught BUT i hope it helps.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2007):

Hi Hun,

From experience no I think not, And you may bleed a little but if you use lub and your partner is very gentle it should be fine I hope that helped love mandy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2007):

i think you should be able to feel it if it intact but if its broken mmaybe not , however i dont think many peoples fingers are long enough but i dunno how high the hymen is , hope it helps

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2007):

Hey.. i can only help with your second question.

I was told by all my friends that i would bleed on my first time... but i didn't at all. SO i guess it just depends on the person

Hope i've been some help.

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