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writes:I was wondering, if it is possible that my husband 'simpotence,caused by his workaholism? He is totally off sex, never wants any sex, at all, he is unable to get hard, when once every few month i initiate sex. I found very confusing articles about this subject. Some professional believes, it is possible, others thinks, its not going to get rid off such a strong basic instinct, and it is just a wrong approach. So it is inconclusive. It is very disturbing , because he was such a high sex drive guy before, and also very affectionate. Never missed a chance...But at the last 3 years, he is ice cold, never horny, does not get excited from anything. It came so suddenly, that I could never explain it to myself what happened so far. And it is very frustrating, not even know it. He has been a workaholic for a long time. Works long hours on his computer, home office. His health is perfect. He had all the test to see, if there is anything wrong with him medically, but nothing was showing up .. Perfect heart, no diabetes,no smoking, no don drinking... His GP is confused, but run out of guesses. So what do you think, can too much work itself can cause impotence? Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2013): You sure hes working on his computer and not visiting sites, girls or web cams? Just another angle, low testosterone maybe? If nothing medical and not cheating maybe something psychological? My first impulse if its not medical and unusual for him and he isn't disturbed by this then maybe hes getting somewhere else especially if he doesn't care about your needs. Please when you find out keep us posted, maybe theres something I am missing
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (28 August 2013):
 Maybe you got it reversed. He came to an age when he can't function as well as in his 20's. Working is one part of his manhood and became a substitution and compensation for one part missing. He is at home all the time so it can't be cheating. Do you stay at home also? Does he watch porn?
Are you living like roommates now, or are there occasional hugs and kisses? Does he still do special things for you?
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (28 August 2013):
 What does he think?
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