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Can watching straight-porn keep me from going gay?

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Question - (5 January 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 January 2011)
A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi i am a straight 17 year old and i havent lost my virginity, i masturbate over straight sex and porn but i have doubts about my sexuality, if i continue to masturbate over this porn can it prevent me from becoming gay in the future?

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A male reader, AvgGuy1 United States +, writes (6 January 2011):

AvgGuy1 agony aunt

At some point... EVERY bi/gay person wishes this were the case... but NO. Straight porn doesn't make you straight any more than gay porn makes you gay.

Your sexuality is just something that you have to figure out. It sounds to me, since you're whackin off to straight porn, that you're more straight than gay. I don't think there's anyone that's 100% straight... or 100% gay. There's just shades of grey in between. Don't fret if you're a little curious (bi)... besides if you're still a virgin (haven't done it with either sex)... how do you know which one you really prefer. If anything I'd say you need to get out there and experiment a little... before you truly decide one way or the other.

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A male reader, Boonridge McPhalify United Kingdom +, writes (5 January 2011):

Boonridge McPhalify agony auntnah, you're preference is not going to leave that way. how many american preachers have tried and failed....

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A female reader, DanceInTheDark Canada +, writes (5 January 2011):

DanceInTheDark agony auntNope sorry. Being gay isn't something you can prevent. If you are, you are.

Honestly, don't worry. Most teenagers have their doubts about their sexuality. According to Alfred Kinsey, it's very rare for someone to be completely straight or gay.

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