A
male
age
36-40,
*hemanjackson
writes:Im in my first serious relationship for 3 years now. I love my girlfriend. She is beautiful and we get along.We are having our first child soon. I want to marry her. But sometimes I feel like I'm hiding part of myself from her. I think that if she knew how sexual I really am she might not look at me the same. We have a great sex life but she is pretty conservative outside of the bedroom. For instance she won't look at shirtless men on tv and I think she doesn't want me to look at naked women. My problem is that I'm a man I look at naked women. Should I be honest with her or pretend that I'm something I'm not so I don't risk losing her.
View related questions:
sex life Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2011): Most men are like this. Tell her you are like most men and be honest but reassure her about your feelings for her.
A
male
reader, lakers_lover09 +, writes (24 December 2011):
Well you owe it to the girl you love to be honest.and I truely think that if she loves you, she will atleast accept you even ig she doesn't agree. Dnt push her to be more sexual if that's not who she is though. Just tell her that you are and that you hope she will one day be comfortable with you to explore and experiment with you..if she doesn't, do you love her enough to be okaywith it? Good luck my friend
...............................
|
