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*radzleyB
writes:Hi,Well About 12months ago i got with a girl and we were together for months then we broke up. recently she asked about if we cud get back together and i said id love to, but at the time id slept with this girl a few times. she asked, but i denied it. now she knows, and thinks im a repetitive lier and doesnt really want to know and i need help to win her back thanks
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reader, DESTINY 23  +, writes (20 October 2009):
 I think she should go back . Yes and give you a chance and tell you everything you want to hear. I love you I trust you and your the best in bed.
After you get comfortable she should have sex with someone else in fact have sex with him bj and all and come home to see you and give you a kiss right after she sucked a guys dick. oh and tell you she missed you, loves you and never would cheat on you . Thats basically what you your doing to her jerk
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2009): The reason you lied was to spare her feelings and increase your chances of getting her back.And it worked (heh heh..till you got caught).Lying is never good but at least your reasons for doing it were sort off (a bit) noble up to a point.If thats the only thing you lied about then your not a repetitive liar. If she likes you she should be a big girl and understand then forgive.Its not like you cheated on her.You may have to work at it now.You need to show her your trustworthy and very sorry. Sweep her off her feet.If it dont work then you have learned a lesson the hard way.Thats life.
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (16 October 2009):
 By actions not words....
Words are cheap, and you have been already exposed to be a liar. Its up to you to back up your words by actions.
Caring Guy says to just keep telling her...that will not work, dude...you can tell her until you are blue in the face but unless you back your stuff up then it means nothing.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 October 2009):
All you can do is talk to her and tell her that you're not a repetetive liar. I think it's more likely she's worried that you'll use her. Just keep talking to her. If it doens't work, move on.
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