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writes:I am from Palestine and currently living in Jordan. so I met a turkish guy at a resort 2 months ago, and we started talking and liked each other, and I kept talking to him even after going back to palestine. He then started telling me that he wants to marry me and I honestly did not believe it because Turkey and Palestine have similar cultures and usually men in Palestine who work in such places will only play games with girls and then end up marrying a palestinian woman, because they will not marry a foreign girl who to them doesnt have enough "honor". I told him that but then he asked me to talk to his sister to prove that he told his family about me. I really dont know what to believe please help me out. Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (31 October 2017):
 Talk to your family and allow them to look out for you. It is much to soon to be talking about marriage, you barely know each other. You need to spend more time with him and get to know his family and he yours until you feel more comfortable.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  + ♥, writes (28 October 2017):
 Sweetheart, you need to get to know each other before you start even thinking about a future together. I have no idea what this guy's game is but this is not normal behaviour.
How old is he?
Please tread carefully.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2017): You have said it,Palestinian and Turkish cultures are the same. Essentially Islamic. Do what this culture dictates. Let him bring his family and introduce them to yours and let them ask for your hand from yours and let the elders of your family decide if he is genuine or not. Good luck.
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reader, Been there Now over it +, writes (28 October 2017):
Perhaps he does want to marry you. But this is way too soon to be thinking like this. You have not near enough history together for one of you to start declaring intent to marry, especially if there are cultural differences involved. He's either very needy, very immature, way too impulsive and/or has an unhealthy infatuation. Before talking about marriage, you need to spend a good deal of time with this fellow in Turkey and Jordan. It could turn out to be a great relationship, but he already has one strike against him in my book.
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