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Broken up - how cud I have been so stupid?

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Question - (12 April 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 April 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *pendy writes:

I loved my ex soo much.. i thought he loved me to cos he'd look into my eyes

like he want to say something but he doesn't he just smiles and my hearts melts:) when he smiles and whenever he kissed me my heart would just jump.

he was really sweet.it took 2months to kiss me. i asked he said hes got respect and didn't want to scare me off. whenever we made Iove it was beautiful, passionate and really tender. he was everything i could ask for.

then he started saying i was cheating on him and messing him about. he said i wasn't have sex with him so someone must be getting it from me..(never cheated on him) we had an argument. we made up. i rang him he didn't answer.

2months of not talking, he rang to say he wanted to be Friends.hes got a gf and was happy. i was hurt..i loved Him soo much still do.

but i blew it..i should've fought for our love but i was soo stupid for 2months i didnt call him:( now he's gone and i will never see him again.

THX..xx am 20 and hes 21:(

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A female reader, janniepeg Canada +, writes (13 April 2010):

janniepeg agony auntNo, he cheated on you, with the girlfriend he's with now. He's making up stories so that you are the guilty one. So the problem is not that you argued with him, it's that you are trusted him too much and never thought he's capable of lying to this extent. Congratulations for never seeing him again.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010):

Some guys, when they start cheating on their girlfriends, will accuse the GIRL of cheating for the excuse of breaking up with them. Even if this is not the case with this guy, you're luckier without him. Paranoia and controlling behavior has no place in a relationship, and if you gave him no cause to be suspicious, looks like he was manufacturing suspicion to get out of the relationship with you.

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