| A
female
,
anonymous
writes: Hi,I recently split with my bf and it was the over the stupidest thing. I got really drunk said some things I didn't mean to say, shouted it's over.Thing is though that's the worst thing that could happen. I am totally crazy about him and wouldn't do anything to hurt him intentionally.We are currently on a break. I'm supposed to be seeing him tomorrow. Is there hope or am I wasting my time?
View related questions:
a break, drunk Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2006): Just some more info.I just met up with my ex bf we argued for a while then we started talking calmly, next thing i know we are kissing eachother i am totally confused with whats going on i love him so much i dont know what to do.
A
female
reader, chachacha  +, writes (16 April 2006):
There must be hope if he has agreed to see you. Unclear how you went about setting up this meeting or what it's agenda is supposed to be.
Honesty is the best policy - tell him how you feel, and then be honest with both him and you to figure out what made you say those things when you were drunk. Had you been feeling them before? Do you have some deep seated issues with him? Are you a fiery, over the top person who says things in a rage, and if so, are you going to work on this or can he expect more of it? Share all this with him as openly as you can and encourage him to do the same.
Good luck.
...............................
A
female
reader, smeedle +, writes (16 April 2006):
 You just have to bite the bullet and grovel, say how sorry you are and that you did not mean it, and then tell him that you dont want it to be over and in fact want to start seeing him again.
Tell him you have now learnt that you say stupid things when drunk and will not make that mistake again.
...............................
A
female
reader, xXxNatxXx +, writes (16 April 2006):
 I think that when you meet him tomorrow you explain how deadfully sorry you are and you realise what a stupid mistake it was then hopefully he will come around and see that you really do love him. Dont expect everything to be just perfect - it may take some work. (depending on what it was about)Don't give up on it, there is always hope.Good luck x x
...............................
|
