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30-35,
*aundrydog
writes:My boyfriend recently reunited with a friend of his, "Josh", that I think is a very bad influence. I don't understand their relationship at all.My boyfriend is loyal and sweet and I dont think he would cheat on me.However, tonight he is hanging out with his stupid friend Josh and together they are hanging out with six above average attractive single girls. It bothers me because my boyfriend is not friends with any one of these girls apart from knowing his friend "Josh". Should I bring this up to him, or do I seem like a crazy jealous girlfriend.This situation makes me insecure...
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2011): Six girls to two guys sounds way awkward. No offense, but I don't know a guy funny, smart or charismatic who could keep six girls' attention all at once, let alone two guys who could.
It's interesting that you think Josh is a bad influence and is stupid, but you don't say why. What has he done to make you feel this way?
As for hanging out with six girls, these girls are single, and I'm assuming Josh is, too. Perhaps your boyfriend is there to be Josh's "wingman"? You say you trust your boyfriend, but you're feeling insecure, so you can't really trust him all that much. I say, assume the best about your boyfriend and his intentions. He can make decisions independent of Josh. Unless things start getting WAY more weird and uncomfortable, you should brush this one off for now.
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