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writes:so my recent boyfriend of the last two months told me that he thinks i should move on because he has a lot going on right now with his mom's failing health. I don't mind being there for him regardless of how much he has going on. What should I do? What can I do? I love this guy.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (21 September 2013):
 He's pulling back and letting go for his OWN sake, not for your sake. He doesn't need another person to think of and care for, he's obviously got enough with himself right now. But for whatever reasons, he is the one who doesn't want you to be his girlfriend any longer. So this isn't about him trying to protect you by letting you go because it'll be too much for YOU. He is looking out for himself and letting you go because that is what he thinks is best for HIMSELF right now.
It doesn't matter then than you are willing to do this or that or stick by him through thick and thin. He doesn't want you there, simple as that. You've only been together for two months, and he doesn't want you around to see him hurt, he's not taking you in and showing you trust like a partner does. He's pushing you away. Take that as a big solid hint that he's not the right boyfriend for you, and he doesn't think you're the right girlfriend for him.
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