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30-35,
anonymous
writes:my boyfriend and i have been together almost 2 1/2 years and we have a one year old little girl. he has no interest in me sexually anymore though, he says hes just bored, says he wont cheat but is bored so nothing ever happens in the bedroom. how do i make him want me again? like i dont look as good as before i had our daughter but idk. not sure how to reignite that spark and passion we had. . . .help!
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reader, downonmyluck +, writes (3 June 2012):
I;ll have to agree with "the old bag" & "honeybun" here. Also you might want to play some sexual board games or something along those lines. Or possibly try acting out different types of people.. like for example he can be the cowboy one time while you play out as a nurse,etc. And change different role models from time to time!
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reader, oldbag  +, writes (2 June 2012):
 Hi
He doesn't help the situation much, telling your partner your bored isn't the best way to make them want sex with you.
He sounds very immature and tactless. Your gonna have to work hard to get his interest and its surprising you want to.
Get some exercise,work out,run, let him babysit while you go. Change your hair, use differentd make-up. The idea is to feel confident and positive about yourself, to feel and look hot, show him the girl he fell for.
Its hard when you have a small child to care for, but remember your a woman too just like you were before you became a Mum.
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reader, Honeybun +, writes (2 June 2012):
 why dont you try a look change??most of the times what you project of yourself comes from the inside. so how are u feeling?how about initiating sex??or doing something unsual that will be fun
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