A
female
age
30-35,
*t1012
writes:I went drinking with my boyfriend (of nearly 2 months) and his friends. He got drunk and I had to take care of him and get him home safe and tuck him in bed. Before he passed out he said "You are too good to me. You know what that means?" I said "what do you mean" and he said "figure that out" and then passed out. The next morning he said he was glad he woke up seeing me and that he didn't scare me away.I haven't asked him what he was trying to hint since he forgot a lot about the night. When he said "you are too good to me", is it a warning or compliment or was he trying to say sth else?
View related questions:
drunk Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2013): Whatever people say when drunk is meaningless. Drunk people often are really confused while mixing up other people and places and situations. Therefore don't put any stock into anything he says when drunk as you have no idea if he even realized who he was talking to or about.
A
female
reader, YouWish  +, writes (27 January 2013):
 It's a compliment. The "figure it out" was because he was too drunk to spell out where his burst of affection came from. You took care of him and tucked him in.
...............................
A
female
reader, Atsweet1 +, writes (27 January 2013):
 When I say things of this line I would mean you are being a friend or lover. Past experience people wasnt good to me while I was drunk. So it meant they appreciate what you did for them wholeheartly.
...............................
A
male
reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (27 January 2013):
 When people are drunk they don't usually even know what they're saying much less have a reason worth evaluating. forget it and move on.
...............................
A
female
reader, kt1012 +, writes (27 January 2013):
kt1012 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThis is the first time he got drunk when we went out drinking and he didn't act like an ass. It's probably the first time I really looked after him.
He talks about our relationship or his feelings, most of the time out of nowhere. He says positive things but in an indirect way. When I ask him what he means to make sure I don't get the wrong idea, he will say "nothing" and talk about sth else. It sometimes frustrates me because I tend to start overanalysing things. Maybe he's shy when it comes to talking about feelings?
...............................
A
female
reader, Daisy_Daisy +, writes (27 January 2013):
 I don't know, are you too good to him, or even too good for him? Have there been clues when he's sober? Do you often find yourself looking after him?
I'd usually suggest you talk to him and ask what he meant, but it sounds like he was too pissed to remember.
...............................
A
female
reader, _Sandra_  +, writes (27 January 2013):
That means that he's not sure if he's able to pull by a relationship with such kind and good girl as you are. I dont mean that he might be telling lies or did smth wrong, but he's a sort of low self esteem and maybe doesn't think that he'll do the same if you got drunk, maybe he's afraid of responsibility. You did everything all right, but I know that if I were you I hardly did the same, I'd be a lil bit angry that he got that drunk, lost his control and didn't care about me too (it happend to me once, I were left alone in the street among lots of drunk and unfamiliar guys around me). But that happens and it seems that you're a very compassionate girl and you care a lot about him.Just dont mind all these words he said, there's no need to ask him about it, I guess.Regards,
...............................
A
male
reader, Silius Sodimus  +, writes (27 January 2013):
Alcohol makes you lose your inhibitions and generally let's people know whats on your mind, it could have been just a mindless brainfart but I think there is nothing to look into, he was drunk and perhaps he was happy that you took the responsibility of getting him in bed, it's a nice thing for anyone to do so from my experience just take it as he meant what he meant and there's nothing to look into further beyond that.
...............................
|
