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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend of two and a half months said he wanted some space to sort out some things in his life. He asked for me to give him at least two weeks, and it's been 10 days now. We bump into each other every now and then, he only called me once, we still chat on mxit and he always tells me that he misses me and he loves me. Could this guy be using me? Does he love me? Is he going to come back to me?
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reader, Didi O  +, writes (15 February 2011):
I don't think its a good sign when a man asks for space soo early in the relationship. This is the time he should be all over you chasing you and being so romantic because you are in the beginning stages...unless you asked him out, chased him and you were the pursuer. In that case he's probably overwhelmed with the love and afraid of being too close. Now is the time to give him all the space in the world, don't call, text or email him and rarely answer his calls. Infact MOVE On with your life. Men respond to NO CONTACT. if he loves you, he'll come running back but in the mean time don't put your life on hold for him like you're being strung along like a pupet on string. your not his LAP dog! You have a life, let him come begging when he's done soul searching and if you are available good for him.men always want what they can't have, as soon as you are out of reach, he'll come looking for you again. Good luck
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