My friend shares too much detail about her dates and sex life, then gets annoyed when I flirt with other girls in her presence. Why would she act this way?
Q. A friend of mine, not the closest of my friends, but a friend nonetheless, is bothered when these girls I know flirt with me and when I flirt back. I don't do it in front of her or anything, and I don't go looking to do it either. This girl is c...
A. 23 October 2016: Maybe she likes you??
She could be telling you she goes on dates and how sexually active she is as it will maybe make you think of her in that way? Like she's boasting about guys liking her... maybe she wants to make you jealous?
I can't think... (read in full...)
What would be your summation of what makes a guy so sexy? Is that impossible to define? Or could you say it is just a feeling you get inside?
Q. Is there such a thing as a guy who you've just met or seen, who doesn't look like some kind of a model, and who makes you feel, "This guy is SEX! (gaaah, droool)...? What would be your description of what makes him so sexy, or is it impossible to...
A. 23 October 2016: Funny always does it for me! And just someone who's a little different, has something really interesting to say! I also personally love when a guy is really passionate about something... it could be anything. Football, playing music... anything, ... (read in full...)
Do you think it's unreasonable for a husband to request that his wife not kiss mutual male friends hello and goodbye on the lips?
Q. Do you think it's unreasonable for a husband to request that his wife not kiss mutual male friends hello and goodbye on the lips? We only have one male friend who does this. He does it to other wives as well. He had been a mutual friend for 10 ye...
A. 23 October 2016: I personally don't think you should worry at all, I kiss all my guy friends on the lips, it's just something our friendship group has always done. And you said yourself you don't think anything is happening? I do get what you're saying about, if... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and I'm pregnant by my 15 year old B/f who talked me into sex. What do I do now?
Q. Hey!:) Ok, I have a huge problem and really need some help! I'm 14 years old, and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 months. He is 15, and in the year above me at school. At the beginning of the relationship, everything was absoutol...
A. 6 September 2012: He doesn't sound right for you. You deserve someone better who treats you with respect, leave him! Or at least go on a break for him and don't see him until your head is sorted. You need to think about you, and that fact you are pregnant. speak... (read in full...)
Are there guys out there who actually don't like strip clubs?
Q. Are there guys out there who actually DON'T like strip clubs? I live in a mining town and strip clubs are starting to pop up everywhere, and since mining is a very male dominated field, guys go there after work to bond, and blah blah. I've been ...
A. 6 September 2012: No, not all guys like it! My boyfriend went to one once for his brothers stag do, and he told me, I was a bit upset but didn't mind as it was for his brother. He hated it, you weren't allowed to touch them just sit and look, and he said he felt ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be a desperate, clingy girlfriend!
Q. Hey...this sounds really sad but I'd like some advice on how to cope with missing my boyfriend. I'm usually not the clingy type (completely the opposite in fact!) but this ones different and I really really like him. When I dont see him for a few ...
A. 6 September 2012: It's normal to miss him!
Just when you aren't with him, try to enjoy it to! Try think, oohh 'me time' and that you can chill out and do what you wanna do, and go see your friends, and try to get excited about when you are next going to see him rath... (read in full...)
My libido has gone from 100% to about 10%
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for a little over three years. I lost my virginity to him when I was thirteen, but as soon as my parents found out they broke us up. Anyway I’m eighteen now, and recently my libido has gone from 100% to about 10%. I ...
A. 6 September 2012: First of all, do not worry about it! I have phases where I'm really in the mood for months, and phases where I just can't be bothered. Are you on any form of contraceptive? Because the pill can make you libido completely go down! Now, if you ... (read in full...)
I am seriously bored with my relationship and have been thinking about my ex...a lot.
Q. I am so lost in my current relationship, I don't want to end it, I want to fix it, or tell my boyfriend to wake up and see if we can grab our relationship before it has nothing left. I am seriously becoming bored with my relationship. When I am with ...
A. 6 September 2012: Hello :) I have been in this exact situation before, quite recently! I think you are thinking about your ex because your lacking in this relationship, because your boyfriend doesn't take you out and appreciate you, and make you feel special, so... (read in full...)
I have reoccurring dreams of my boyfriend cheating!
Q. i keep having these re occurring dreams of my boyfriend cheating on me with various people he has been with. has anyone else had this and how did you stop it? ...
A. 6 September 2012: Hello :)
I would say that you are worried that your boyfriend may cheat, or lie to you, and your sub conscious mind is telling you that. Even if you don't feel like he will, something else may be bothering you a bit?
Is anything on your mind abo... (read in full...)
Should I go out with this guy even though everyone thinks he's weird?
Q. I just moved to a new school and i like this guy and he likes me too. Everyone says hes really weird but i don't see it and everything they say is bad about him it doesn't bother me. I know your probably saying just to go out with him and see where ...
A. 14 February 2012: From experience, go out with him:)... (read in full...)
I like a confusing guy, do you think this sounds like its worth it?
Q. At my Uni, there's a very politically involved guy who's hated by the majority of people and almost worshipped by the few who don't; my group of friends was among the people who disliked him, so to speak. I added him on Facebook out of curiosity, to ...
A. 12 December 2011: I can not believe this! That is almost exactly my situation. (Apart from the girlfriend who is older, but he has a girlfriend). Every single bit, the way he acts, talks to me, invited me out. Argh I'm baffled by that! Anyway, in my situatio... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has said she wants to go her own way, but since then is being more loving than ever! What is going on?
Q. yesterday my girlfriend said she cant stand living with me any longer she is wanting to move out and have a year to be "crazy" and think about what she wants (whatever that means) So basically it sounds to me like its going to be over.... However...
A. 8 June 2011: If I was you, I'd say the same. Why don't you try talk to her and see what she wants, and if she wants to go off for a bit, take a cray year out, then let her know you love her but won't be waiting for her at the end, if she choses to do that. And I ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has said she wants to go her own way, but since then is being more loving than ever! What is going on?
Q. yesterday my girlfriend said she cant stand living with me any longer she is wanting to move out and have a year to be "crazy" and think about what she wants (whatever that means) So basically it sounds to me like its going to be over.... However...
A. 7 June 2011: Have you two been together for a long time?
There could be many reasons for that, I was once with a guy for absolutely ages, and I loved the bones off him but because I'd been with him for so long I wanted to go out, and wanted the excitement of g... (read in full...)
I caught my ex cheating in the office! Would you turn her in?
Q. I caught my ex gold-digging past-lover that I work with screwing with another person in the office this morning? I caught them and now have extremely incriminating evidence against her and I would love to get her kicked out of the office for ...
A. 5 May 2011: I definitely would tell!
Karma's a bitch!... (read in full...)
Should I confront him about this FB message or am I being overly sensitive?
Q. Hi guys :) I've been with my boyfriend nearly 8 months now and I do trust him but yesterday on his Facebook profile one of his friends (who I've never met but who he has talked about to me) left him a comment saying '... and I'll be home so...
A. 5 May 2011: I understand completely! This girl commented on my boyfriends page saying she's back from uni for a bit, and she's like to see him, but added ';)' and made it flirty. And it really really got to me,
all you have to remember is that he wasn't flir... (read in full...)
Does anyone else feel this way?
Q. Hey guys! I was just wondering something. When you're in a relationship, do you ever get bored of the person you're with and find faults with them easily? This happens all the time with me and is the main reason I find it hard to make relationshi...
A. 3 May 2011: Oh god, I am exactly the same! I do get bored, and I pick up on the most tiniest things ever. But a lot of that is being paranoid. I'd say, think about how much you liked this person when you first met them, and even when you find a fault, or feel... (read in full...)
Do I have a right to ask my boyfriend to remove certain girls off his facebook friends list?
Q. Do I have a right to ask my boyfriend to remove certain girls off his facebook friends list? A long time ago I broke up with him and he ended up sleeping with someone shortly after. He says it meant nothing and we've worked through this. I ...
A. 20 May 2010: Well i heard rumours about this girl with my boyfriend, and they were friends and i got angry and just said without thinking to delete her, then i felt bad but he is fine with it.
why don't you imply something about it makes you paranoid then mayb... (read in full...)
Terrible pain when trying to finger myself
Q. I'm a virgin 16 year old girl and when I try to finger my vagina I can't because IT HURTS A LOT.I can't even stick my entire finger in my vagina,I have tried but I can't,I have been trying to finger my vagina since I was 12 years old(when I ...
A. 18 April 2010: It's worth a try! Use lots and lots and lots of lube! and just relax and take your time, x... (read in full...)
I feel like I have to be with him all the time so he won't cheat!
Q. ive been seeing a guy for nearly a year now and since the beginning of the year we've started having sex. and ever since then ive become incredibly attatched. before we started having sex we'd only see each other once or twice a week.and it never ...
A. 18 April 2010: He's with you, so he obviously really likes/loves you. Guys are usually pretty easy to read, if he was getting over you, you'd probably know. I think what's probably happened is, one of his mates has been like having a go or saying something taking ... (read in full...)
I'm 17, how would I look if I dated a 15-year-old?
Q. I'm 17 and I'm wondering is dating a girl that is 15 and a freshman is that low class? She is really nice but would that make me look bad...
A. 18 April 2010: Not at all. In my opinion, who cares?! if you're maturity levels are the same and you get on, then i don't think it's a problem. Obviously or some people it will be, but their not in the relationship. Girls are usually more mature faster than guys... (read in full...)
Terrible pain when trying to finger myself
Q. I'm a virgin 16 year old girl and when I try to finger my vagina I can't because IT HURTS A LOT.I can't even stick my entire finger in my vagina,I have tried but I can't,I have been trying to finger my vagina since I was 12 years old(when I ...
A. 18 April 2010: You're probably thinking too much about it, so you're worried and it tightens etc. Have you tried using lube? x... (read in full...)
Terrible pain when trying to finger myself
Q. I'm a virgin 16 year old girl and when I try to finger my vagina I can't because IT HURTS A LOT.I can't even stick my entire finger in my vagina,I have tried but I can't,I have been trying to finger my vagina since I was 12 years old(when I ...
A. 17 April 2010: first of all nothing is wrong... It's quite normal for some women to be small down there, it will expand with more time and when you've had sex etc.
You may even tighten up without realising it, if you're thinking ''ah it's not gonna go in it's ... (read in full...)
Dos and don'ts of a long distance relationship?
Q. I am in a long distance relationship with my girl for over two months, how do we survive, what are the dos and don'ts,because i have heard that it rarely works. If u have been in one before,your help we be appreciated. ...
A. 17 April 2010: I've been in one, we lived about an hour bus away. It was a summer thing, and then I decided it wouldn't work (but that was mainly because I had my GCSE's).
I think it can definately work, who's to say it can't,
it depends on; how much you lik... (read in full...)
He accused me of cheating when I wasn't and then broke up with me!
Q. How can he do that?? thats soo cruel:(? my ex boyfriend and I were together for 2years..he started accusing me of cheating when i wasn't and then the other he told me hes got a girl/wifey and he has given her a ring, he loves her soo much. ...
A. 17 April 2010: Write down all his bad points, including the facts he had someone else, cheating, left you etc.
Now just imagine meeting this guy! If he asked you out again now, would you honestly want to get back with someone who will do this, and if you thin... (read in full...)
Boyfriend told me he'd leave if I got pregnant, and I tested positive.
Q. I am 15 and i done a pregnancy test this morning it was positive.My boyfriend said he would leave me if i ever was what should i do?...
A. 17 April 2010: First of all forget about the guy and think about yourself.
When did you last have sex with him last night, 'cause if so you could get the morning after (up to three days after you've had sex) next is the abortion pill, which i think is months afte... (read in full...)
How long should I wait, I have given him a week already
Q. My boyfriend said he needs time . That he needs to become a better person. We been having problems we been together for almost four years.I texted him after a week of not calling me and he says he loves me and misses me but says staying apart is the ...
A. 29 November 2009: Do what he says and spend time on you and with friends, wait till he calls you, no matter how long it is. if it gets out of order and it takes forever just text him and say you still need to know what's going on etc xxxxx... (read in full...)
Where are the best places to kiss her, to turn her on?
Q. Can someone please tell me some places that I should touch or kiss my girl to arouse her the most?...
A. 27 November 2009: everywhere! start kissing her then her neck, then boobs, carry on going down her tummy etc. just explore her body with kissess!... (read in full...)
I'm having problems with my mother, she is just too strict with me!
Q. Basically, I have issues with my mother. Don't get me wrong, I love her dearly and all but most of the times, she's just TOO unreasonable and conservative for her own good. To begin with, she won't allow me to wear make-up. I'm 16 by the way and I ...
A. 27 November 2009: You're mother does love you, and is just worried for your safety. About when she left you because of the photographs is insane though! Talk to her about that and say it hurt you etc. but a lot of mothers are like that! I'm 15, and i can wear wha... (read in full...)
How can I let my friend see I want to spend more time with my boyfriend?
Q. I got a boyfriend on Sunday, but I haven't been able to spend much time with him because my friend "Lucy" doesn't seem to grasp the concept that I want to spend time with him as well. I want to let her know, but I don't want to do it in a way that ...
A. 27 November 2009: take it in turns with them:) if she doesn't understand then just see your boyfriend until she realises she has to share:)... (read in full...)
I don't want to be afraid to love because of one stupid betrayal, how do I move on from this?
Q. How long does it take for one to forget about the pain of break up and move on to another relationship? It had been 6 months since I broken up with my ex because he cheated on me by chasing another girl at the same time when he was with me. I can ...
A. 26 November 2009: You don't need a guy. Enjoy yourself with your friends etc and have fun. You need to realise that he was just ONE guy. Not all guys act like this or are like this. I know exactly how you feel, I have been cheated on a fair few times. I don't think ... (read in full...)
How can I let my friend see I want to spend more time with my boyfriend?
Q. I got a boyfriend on Sunday, but I haven't been able to spend much time with him because my friend "Lucy" doesn't seem to grasp the concept that I want to spend time with him as well. I want to let her know, but I don't want to do it in a way that ...
A. 26 November 2009: Just go to see your boyfriend and don't tell her you don't have to, and when she asked just say you went to see him today. And if she asks you to go out just say you've made arrangments with him. But don't forget about her, she's just as important ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend and crush, please help!
Q. This probably sounds stupid but i will just say it. I have been in a relationship with this guy who i think i love nine months. We are both juniors in high school, but we go to different high schools. We sometimes see each other on the weekdays but ...
A. 26 November 2009: If you're in love with your boyfriend, this crush is just lust not love so don't end it with your boyfriend.
If you are starting to not like you're boyfriend or feel he doesn't give you all you want, then maybe you want a change. You shouldn't chea... (read in full...)
Hair removal gone wrong
Q. Ok my problem is a little bit embarressing! Me and my bf were going to take things the whole way and have sex so i decided to shave down there but i had a huge prob the next it was so sore and irritable and there was like loads of little spots. I ...
A. 26 November 2009: Thats normal it happens to near enough everyone. I'd say wax, it lasts about 3 weeks, and the skin is smooth the whole time. It's just whether you can deal with the pain!
Or if you don't want to wax I'd just say invest in a really good shaver espe... (read in full...)
He's got a girlfriend but wants to sleep with me!
Q. hey im 17 and there this guy on my college course that i thought like me but it turns out he got a girlfriend, but he keeps asking if i want to sleep with him, i mean i wanted too.. but now i know he got a girlfriend i dont know what to do pls ...
A. 26 November 2009: He has a girlfriend and wants to sleep with you, so this already tells you what kind of guy he is.
If you fancy him and want to then you could, but you have to think about your feelings afterwards and if you will start to like him as then you will... (read in full...)
Should I tell my bestfriend her boyfriend is cheating on her?
Q. hey! i have this best friend of mine at school and she has a boyfriend whom she's been with for 4 years or so... he's also at the same school. her boyfriend comes to the same tuition place at me [we go there for extra classes] and there he flirts ...
A. 26 November 2009: This is a hard situation. There's the part of her getting hurt by knowing, and then the part where if you don't tell her and she finds out she'll be hurt.
Personally, I think she should know. I've been cheated on, and it is horrible finding out,... (read in full...)
Are these signs she is cheating on me? What do you think?
Q. hey i'm in a long distance relationship and i suspect my partners cheating on me... many things tell me she is and i will write them as the following,but please,i would appreciate if no one answered me with the same old" oh y'know when you sta...
A. 25 November 2009: It does sound like she likes a lot of attention with guys etc as she goes out with them a lot.
You should just talk to her, and say it's hurting you that she goes out with all these guys etc.
If she kicks off and turns it on you and does the whol... (read in full...)
He's been hurt from past relationships..how do I get him to open up and like me?
Q. I am interested in a guy who likes me too. However, our problem is that he is too hung up on past issues. Apparently both of his previous girlfriends cheated on him. I want him to take a chance on me, I want to get to know him. While he is ...
A. 25 November 2009: You said you don't care if a relationship comes out of this, so get closer as friends.
It is hard trusting people sometimes, if you like him and care about him, just don't turn your back on him.
He will open up, if he has anything to open up about... (read in full...)
I feel like I need my space! Is this the right thing to do?
Q. Been Together with my Boyfriend for Six Months now, we both love each other and are really close and get along very well, but i woke up today and realised i need space, i dont wanna break up with him or anything because i love him, but i just feel ...
A. 25 November 2009: I don't think you should break up with him for good, you obviously love him a lot and he does with you.
You wanting a bit of space is absolutely normal. Every single relationship I have been in, I get to a stage where I feel a bit, it sounds mean... (read in full...)
I want him to love me more! So much so that he's be scared to leave me...
Q. i want to make my boyfriend love me so much so that he gets scared to leave me, but i dont know how....
A. 25 November 2009: You can't make someone love you end of. If you're asking this I'm assuming you might not be happy at the minute with him? It seems you have insecurities and you're scared of him leaving you. If he leaves you, then you'll find someone better :)... (read in full...)
I prefer older guys! Should I hold off on dating?
Q. this may sound bad but im 16 and i've noticed lately that im more atracted to guys in like there late late teens or like 22, so like 18-22... i just ind guys my age anoying and inmucher....i just want to find some one to cuddle with and feel safe ...
A. 25 November 2009: If you're mature enough then I don't think it's a problem. Girls mature faster than guys, so older guys with younger girls sometimes work out. I suggest you don't go 20+ as they may abuse your naivity and think they can get away with treating you ... (read in full...)
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