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writes: I've only had tried to have sex twice and both times I was drunk and both times it failedI'm 20 and I don't know if it's nerves or what I've always had shyness issues and stress issues and now it looks like I have profiemance issues. The second time I was basically focused on trying to stay hard the whole time mind racing and panicking and you can guess how that ends anyway I hope this isn't what sex will be like
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2011): Drinking and being drunk when you have sex is a bad idea. It will inhibit your erections. If you're not in a relationship I would recommend that. Being with someone with love will take away all the nerves and eventually it will happen.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (6 March 2011):
 hi don't get too hung up on this. alcohol is not the solution in fact for some men it just makes it worse (even the most experienced men can 'go soft' when they have drank to much!)are you with a steady partner? you may feel more confident if you are with a caring partner rather than a casual hook-up. next time you try to have sex, do it without having had alcohol, i am sure you will notice an improvementxx
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave +, writes (6 March 2011):
You were drunk both times, you probably had brewers' droop
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