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BF of 3.5 years was with me but phoning other girls!

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Question - (9 June 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 June 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

Hi, I was with my guy for 3 1/2 yrs. I was always very jealous and suspected him of two timing with his female friends. I lived far away from him, he always stayed at mine and met my family.I was an open book,but he never introduced me to his family or friends, hence my distrust.Despite my doubts about him, I continued to see him I suggested we had an open relationship which he vehemenently didn't want and said it wasn't right. So I thought all was ok, 'til the the xmas before last he started receiving calls off another girl!! Because of my insecurity and his accusations of me being jealous I dumped him by text. I then started dating people from websites, which all proved pretty grim. I wrote him a letter and told him how much I loved him and wanted to be with him.

Well eventually we got back together, I loved him more than ever, he was the perfect partner. Then one nite six weeks ago, we made passionate love, it was so close and intimate and i believed we had found our heaven...it was bliss, perfect. I was devastated the following evening when I found out he'd been phoning another girl. I was so upset and threw him out. Six weeks later, my heart is still sore and he hasn't contacted me. Surely after 3 1/2 years he should feel something and it wasn't just sex???

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A female reader, sibaan +, writes (9 June 2006):

sibaan agony auntyouknow whats funny is that iv been there except mine was a year and then one day he just left me and went overseas to grow meanwhile he went to another girl and now he wont talk to me at all.

guys are pigs, they have no feelings for anyone exept themselves.

he wiil wake up one day an realise he made a huge mistake and then it will be to late.

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